Are you working on this stuff solo? Or are you collaborating with anyone -- specifically anyone at NASA? There are some folks at NASA working through similar issues - but with somewhat different tools. I'm not entirely sure of the scope of their work or of all of the players -- hence this question.
Dave Kinney (VSPAERO author) has developed a tool that will map pressure loads from VSPAERO to CalculiX - and deflections back. I have not had time yet to get it working, but that is on my plate for the next few months.
Can you provide me with a test case where the mesh size determines whether the rib sticks outside of the surface or not? I think I have an idea what is going on, but a clear test case would be a great way for me to track that down and fix it.
Let me know what works and what doesn't - now is the time to get structures stuff fixed and improved.
I haven't had time to document all of the improvements that went into 3.28.0. If you have any questions on how things work (Trim components, selecting material orientation, etc) let me know and I'll do my best.
Rob