2. I think the two potential locations for the extensions on Windows are:
Documents and Settings/Local Settings/Application Data/Google/Refine/extensions
Did you find the Freebase extension in either of the locations you tried?
3. The RDF extension is only required for reconciliation if you want to use a SPARQL endpoint for the reconciliation - this isn't the case for the FAST reconciliation service you mention. The way this reconciliation service works is that it is a Python application that you run somewhere (e.g. on your local machine) that layers a standard OpenRefine reconciliation service on top of FAST - so basically acts as a mediator between OpenRefine and FAST. The steps to getting this working are:
* Assuming you already have Python installed, you can run this by typing "python reconcile.py --debug" (as in the directions in the README file)
* In you Refine project, from the Column with the values you want to use in the reconciliation choose Reconcile->Start reconciling
* Click 'Add Standard Service'
Apologies these instructions are so brief - there may be some better ones already online someone can point to.
Owen