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same hardware and software
As in, same build of OpenPnP, or same vision pipeline settings?
I know your camera has a lot more resolution that most OpenPnP builds, but your distance to the nozzle tip is proportionally greater than your increased resolution is (i.e. I think you likely have a lower 'effective' resolution than most people, despite having such a capable camera). Most nozzle tips around 3cm from the camera lens on most builds. Can you confirm visually during advanced calibration, that the same feature in the nozzle tip is being reliably detected (typically the air bore). Slow the machine right down and watch the calibration carefully, you should see green crosshairs centered on the feature in question.
I had an issue during one attempt to run advanced calibration, where the tip went slightly out of view by being hidden behind the circular light diffuser, seen in the outline of the image below. When this happened, the vision pipeline was still detecting 'something' on the side of the nozzle, maybe a small glimpse of the spring it might have been, and advanced calibration would complete, with terrible results, as the point it was detecting was not the nozzle tip.