The +1dBm compression point is the point at which signal distortion becomes significant.
The BAV99WT1G protection diode limits signals to below about +10dBm. The filters, switches, and mixer will survive such power levels but won't work correctly.
The BAV99WT1G can dissipate 250mW so it should be able to handle up to +24dBm continuously.
In any case, sending 100W into the Upconverter will destroy it. It was designed with reception at low power levels in mind.
Does your "100W TX/RX Ham antenna" isolate/separate the TX and RX paths? If so then the only issue is transients which the BAV99 should be able to handle.
Adding an AntennaGuard Varistor at the Upconverter input (Signal to Shield) will increase protection against switching transients.
http://www.digikey.com/product-detail/en/VC06AG183R0YAT1A/478-5819-1-ND