QHYCCD offer a "check Updates" application. Run it with the camera attached to see which version you have.
I had endless problems with my QHY5L-ii until I chose the correct driver to use in PHD2, updated it, tweaked the settings and also connected via a powered USB hub. I have no problems now. I sometimes see the check pattern if I don't used the PHD2 2x2 noise reduction. But I only see the checkered pattern when pointed at something inappropriate (eg, in daylight or a cloudy patch in a night sky). I've not seen the checkerboard when looking at a normal starry sky.
The correct driver for me in PHD2 is the one called QHYCCD-Cameras-Guide (ASCOM). Other choice lead to camera disconnects for me. In PHD2, before clicking 'connect', click the little spanner/settings button and I set Readout Speed to High and USB Traffic to 255. I haven't changed the other settings. I also use 'subframes' in the PHD2 Camera Brain settings.
One bit of advice I also read was regarding the slight flakiness of QHY install applications. It's best to uninstall old versions first before installing newer ones. Whether there is any truth in that is beyond me, but it can't hurt ;-)
Also make sure all the USB power saving options are turned off in Windows. (I think you use the Device Manager and also Power Plans in control panel for that)
Good luck!