Well, as far as I know, the DMX wire format is defined such that you
always start with channel 1. So, DMX just can not do that.
The point is that DMX is stateless. So if you have a DMX Device which
reacts to values on channel 5, and a message which only includes
channels 1, 2 and 3 arrives, most devices reacts as if the value for
channel 5 were 0. It does not hold the old value. Actually DMX devices
may even turn off if they do not receive DMX packets regularly. You,
kind of, need to reset the state regularly, because otherwise the device
forgets it. How often you need to reset depends on the device. For my
DMX-RGD-LED-PAR it is 30 minutes.
Usually DMX Controllers send the same packet continuously, so a DMX
controller will send a packet and resend the same packet as soon as
possible afterwards.
Maybe you can explain what problem you are trying to solve? We may be
able to figure out another solution.
Alex