Hello Sue,
I went through your same situation last year with my oldest daughter.
The only thing I was able to get added to my cheque for her was $40.00
as a special diet allowance. It is a paltry sum, when you consider
what an expectant mother is supposed to have in her diet!! Her
pregnancy vitamins were NOT covered, and once my grand-daughter was
born in December of last year, that allowance was ended. Because only
my daughter was on my cheque, I was given nothing extra after the baby
was born, and went into a lot of debt trying to get the things the
baby needed. IE, diapers, formula (my daughter is bipolar and on
medication so she was not able to breast-feed. Had she been able to
breast-feed, the $40.00 diet allowance would have continued up until
the baby was 1 year old.), clothing, car seat, etc. etc. Luckily, the
father's parents have been able to help out alot more financially than
I can.
My daughter had to apply on behalf of the baby to OW. She ended up
moving out of my home to live with her fiance, the baby's father and
they are now on OW together, but she has had an awful time trying to
get OW to add the baby to her cheque because they wanted either a
birth registration card or my grand-daughter's birth certificate. My
daughter moved out on February 1, and although the baby has a health
card, but still no birth registration nor birth certificate (which
seems unreasonable due to the fact that OW was given a photocopy of
the health card) OW will not add the baby to their cheque. The fact
that it is the GOVERNMENT that is backlogged and is taking so long to
issue both the birth registration card and the birth certificate makes
absolutely no difference in the eyes of OW. According to OW, even
though they have the health card, and the baby is covered on their OW
drug card, as far as they're concerned, my grand-daughter doesn't
*exist* as a person!!!
Every single month, OW tries to cut my daughter's family off, using
one excuse after another, even though my future son-in-law is out
looking for work every day, and sending out numerous resumes. They
follow OW's rules to the letter, yet still, they are harrassed every
month, which I find deplorable!
Once your daughter has her baby, she will IMMEDIATELY need to apply
for OW for the baby. Trust me, as soon as she is able, get her in to
the OW office with as much *proof* of the baby's birth as she can
get.
My daughter nor I didn't think to get a copy of the Proof of Live
Birth from the doctor that delivered my grand-daughter, so she and her
fiance are constantly harrassed and stressed out. Had she gotten the
Proof of Live Birth form before she left the hospital (the hospital
won't give out a copy of that form now...why?..I have NO idea!!)
perhaps things would be easier for them. As it stands now, they are
living on just over $900.00 for the 3 of them, and I often have to
squeeze money out of my own cheque to help them out, even though I
barely get enough for myself and my youngest daughter on ODSP as it
is.
There are programs that your daughter can go to, to try to get more
assistance with things for the baby. Not financial assistance, mind
you, but things like diapers, formula, baby clothes, car seat, etc.
Try looking in the blue pages of your phone book for any Emergency
Pregnancy programs.
Here in Hamilton, there is a place called BirthRight, and they connect
expectant mothers with helpful programs. As well, if your daughter is
a teenager, (mine was 18 when she had her baby) the doctor she sees,
or in my daughter's case, the hospital she goes to for her check-ups
will probably want a social worker to speak to her about supports;
family support, is the baby's father going to stay in the picture,
where will she live, etc.
I couldn't afford to even have my daughter take Lamaze classes,
because they cost so much, and there was no subsidy for any of the
classes.
I wish you and your daughter luck, and congratulations! Grand-
children are such a blessing. Even though I'm a grand-mother at 37,
and still cannot believe it some days, I love my grand-daughter to
death and cannot imagine my life without her now.
Take care,
Christine
> hello can anyboby help me out there. my daughter is on odsp and is 6 weeks pregent. doers odsp give you extra for her vitamins.and m clothes she got to by.do they give you extra on your check every month to by crib .and you no all the fun stuff you can by baby shopping. thanks sue
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