Even though you cannot set charges on specific atoms, you can try to direct the SCF towards a solution with an Fe in a 3+ oxidation state by using a fragment guess that combines the isolated Fe atom with a 3+ charge with the ligands in a 3- charge as in the attached input file.
In this case,
the first fragment (labeled as "fe" geometry) is the isolated Fe atom with charge equal 2 and a multiplicity set equal to 2,
while the second fragment (labeled as "ligand" geometry) are remaining atoms in molecule other than Fe with a charge of -2 and multiplicity set equal to 1.
Keep in mind that that I moved the Fe atom as first atom in the "all" geometry to be compatible with the fragment composition.