Experiences of age-related conditions

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Richard Hardwick

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Mar 17, 2026, 12:45:42 PMMar 17
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    Our youngest (?) reader writes
        «Richard has suggested that subscribers to this site
        (by definition elderly?) might usefully exchange
        experiences of age-related conditions …

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Michael.Dodd

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Mar 17, 2026, 1:02:44 PMMar 17
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The spinal system sounds interesting, might have to look that up as I am allergic to normal systems, heart goes mad and either stops or goes much too fast.

 

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andrew Entwistle

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Mar 17, 2026, 3:01:30 PMMar 17
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Sorry I don’t understand both ‘conversations’ – what is a ‘spinal system’?. Why would I want to discuss getting old? Andrew

John Fennell

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Mar 17, 2026, 7:57:56 PMMar 17
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Well said Andrew...I am totally dreading reaching adolescence !!

 
 
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Michael.Dodd

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Mar 18, 2026, 4:54:29 AMMar 18
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Well I think you go through various stages on the way up and again on the way down, my 93 year old mother is occasionally going to childhood if she wants something that she should not have although normally stays in adult stage, her mind is fine but occasionally uses age as an excuse. Has been a battle to get her onto the correct dose of medications though, if staying with levels she had been prescribed she would be dead by now from her two medications dished out at very wrong levels.

Think there might be quite a lot of research on this as I have also twice ended up in situation where I would have died if I had just followed what the doctor said, once very wrong medication given and other time missing a very serious infection even though symptoms clear. Basically up to the patient if they want to survive, not just listen blindly to the doctor in every situation. Increasingly important with age where loads of medications are assumed to be required even if they are not.

Burns, Ian

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Mar 18, 2026, 12:23:35 PMMar 18
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I agree with Andrew - look forwards not backwards.  
Ian Burns
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andrew Entwistle

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Mar 18, 2026, 3:40:03 PMMar 18
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Thank you John and Ian…looking forward is my strong preference…not so easy when caring and history, often not positive, gets in the way of progress! But remain positive and enjoy life with a 1 acre garden, a lovely house now far too big. But as mum once said ‘and who is going to look after you’! wisdom indeed. I have had various health appointments wrt to mother and brother and the experiences of NHS are 100% positive. But, as Geoffrey tells me, ‘it doesn’t mow the lawns’! more wisdom? My advice to ‘the elderly is get on with the positive aspects of your life,  and be grateful and don’t dwell on any negatives.

End of Philosophy lesson! Andrew

John Fennell

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Mar 18, 2026, 9:00:34 PMMar 18
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The strategy that we have taken for "retirement" has taken a few directions.  There isn't a lot we can do about getting older but we do try to keep active with our hobbies and keeping the brain going is also important.  Have plenty of aches and pains but won't give in to them.  Having had bowel cancer and a few melanomas I am a firm believer in early detection and so "not bothering the doctor" isn't a good option.  We do have a good health system in Australia but it is stretched so we continue to pay for private health cover so that we can get things dealt with quickly.  Up until this year I have continued to do consultancy work for the Australian potato industry.  I turn 79 in June and at that time I am retiring from it.  Along with our wildlife photography interests this work has kept my brain busy and has also contributed to the costs of wildlife travel holidays. The other thing that we did was to downsize (slightly).  We sold our house on a hectare block and bought a slightly larger house  on a 1000 sq metre block.  Mowing a hectare on a ride-on mower wasn't too onerous but dealing with fallen tree branches and weed control was a bit strenuous.  Our garden area is now very much smaller and some is just artificial lawn.  We still have to chop a bit of firewood but may soon switch entirely to using the electric aircon/heating system.  So my messages are:  1. Keep the mind and body active as best you can, 2. Visit the doctor regularly and nip problems in the bud and 3. Make sure that leisure time takes priority over having to do jobs...oh and always do as your wife tells you.

 
 
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Stephen Loquens

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Mar 19, 2026, 4:02:54 AMMar 19
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I’m slightly behind in the age stakes compared to one or two contributors, 77 in August. I agree 100% with JF, keep moving and have lots of interests/hobbies, something to get up in the morning for! In my case Jean and I still run two part time businesses so there’s stock to source, some done on line other by travel. We have a large garden and ponds so always something to keep an eye on, including the heron. Eight grandchildren who enjoy visiting and one, Willow, is turning out to be a good trout and bass fisherman or should I see fisher person. 
When we finally slump into a chair at the end of a busy day, glass in hand, Jean simply says………..’No time to die’.
Steve L.


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Stephen Loquens

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Mar 19, 2026, 5:01:22 AMMar 19
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Ref Andrew, keep away from negative people, they will always bring you down.

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andrew Entwistle

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Mar 19, 2026, 5:38:33 AMMar 19
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I took early retirement to care for mother after dad passed. A very positive personal experience but certainly limited opportunities. I have a (too) large but lovely architect designed bungalow that can be hard work; and a 0.5ha garden which I have developed, but looking back on old photos, now think I should have left well alone!

Health is generally OK: I had bowel cancer in 2012, now,  discharged after 5 years cancer free; a scare last Christmas with blood in a FIT test followed by gastroscopy (horrible procedure) and colonoscopy +bioassays which all turned out to be free of ‘abnormalities’. However, family has a history of cancer – grandparents, father, elder and twin brother so future uncertain?  I have always found NHS to be excellent.Before moving here I was 50+ years at an excellent rutal GP surgery. Since then experience less so: difficult to get appointments and a comment ‘no point writing to us as chances are we won’t read the letters’ is not encouraging! I got involved in the process of ‘ Research for Patient Benefit’ for which I was awarded an MBE.

My most enjoyable moments have been long distance walking in the French/Spanish Pyrenees and Italian Alps: usually solo camping with occasional refuges in remote areas; but some scary situations. Now, at age 81, maybe I should be more cautious. These walks often are in regions where English is hardly spoken. I learnt Spanish and Italian at Warwick University to conversation level and this has helped make good friends in Italy. At one time I was translator from scientific Spanish to English for publication in science journals – care of Alan Scaife.

Just seen Stephen’s last comment re negative people; definitely! I am an optimist by nature: problems have solutions even if not so easy to find. Twin brother’s life has not been easy so he is less optimistic and I find the solutions for him. Being an identical twin often interests people abroad; sadly, parts of family have never got used to it and make life difficult. One health professional told me ‘At your age don’t fight the battles you can’t win’ which I try to abide by.

Andrew

Norman L Biddington

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Mar 19, 2026, 8:21:30 AMMar 19
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Talking of age related conditions I  had an eye operation a year ago which I found fascinating from both a scientific and technical perspective but which also prevented me from going progressively blind.. I had been told I was borderline for driving so had  more or less stopped. Then I was told that I have Fuch's endothelial distrophy. This is a relatively rare condition in us oldies and is genetic. My maternal grandmother was almost blind when she died. What is going on is the inner layer of the cornea is disappearing. Since its function is to remove water from the cornea the cornea becomes progressively waterlogged. This can be remedied by a corneal transplant, the cornea having being donated by someone following  their death. Cornea transplants go back a long  way. In the early days the whole cornea was transplanted with a slow settling in period and often with rejection problems. Techniques have improved over the years and the latest method  involves removing  the thin endothelial layer from the donor cornea, rolling it into a scroll and inserting it via a small incision into the eye. It is then unrolled inside the cornea. The transplant is held in place by a gas bubble which is absorbed after about a week So I had to lie on my back for a week, getting up for ten  minutes every hour. At the end of the week my vision had improved remarkably, so much so that I  was well within the requirement needed to drive.  The operation was on my right eye, the left one is okay for now. This type of eye operation is considered very difficult and there are still relatively few surgeons trained to do it,.So feel I very fortunate.

Norman



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andrew Entwistle

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Sounds like difficult experience , Norman, but thanks for experiences. Am told I have poor ‘vision’ by which the mean ‘side vision’. 3-year driving extension comes up in October so am hoping OK by then. Andrew

 

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Talking of age related conditions I  had an eye operation a year ago which I found fascinating from both a scientific and technical perspective but which also prevented me from going progressively blind.. I had been told I was borderline for driving so had  more or less stopped. Then I was told that I have Fuch's endothelial distrophy. This is a relatively rare condition in us oldies and is genetic. My maternal grandmother was almost blind when she died. What is going on is the inner layer of the cornea is disappearing. Since its function is to remove water from the cornea the cornea becomes progressively waterlogged. This can be remedied by a corneal transplant, the cornea having being donated by someone following  their death. Cornea transplants go back a long  way. In the early days the whole cornea was transplanted with a slow settling in period and often with rejection problems. Techniques have improved over the years and the latest method  involves removing  the thin endothelial layer from the donor cornea, rolling it into a scroll and inserting it via a small incision into the eye. It is then unrolled inside the cornea. The transplant is held in place by a gas bubble which is absorbed after about a week So I had to lie on my back for a week, getting up for ten  minutes every hour. At the end of the week my vision had improved remarkably, so much so that I  was well within the requirement needed to drive.  The operation was on my right eye, the left one is okay for now. This type of eye operation is considered very difficult and there are still relatively few surgeons trained to do it,.So feel I very fortunate.

Jo White

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My view is that you have two choices, die young or get old and I know which one I would choose.
Jo
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