Angels, I will respond to your second request first. This is what I
got our of your post.
That you place a high value on gentleness, perhaps part of that is
tenderness and concern for the well being of others.
That there is a is a divine fire of which we are all sparks. For you
the essence of connection (sopmething you treasure) is found when the
divine spark in one connects with and is groked by the divine spark in
the other. Groking back and forth like a cradle of nurturance bathing
each other in a divine fire.
That you struggle with languaging the specifics that NVC seems to be
based on and you want freedom to express yourself as compassionatley
as you are able without having the giraffe police show up either from
the outside or from the inside. Yet you would like to have greater
mastery over NVC and a bunch of other perspectives that resonate with
your intrest in connection and compassion. You would so love to find a
way to increase competence without having to experience the shame and
self-judgment of not being good enough.
Now to your second request. I have experienced an epiphany of self-
fulness from this past week or so. I am much more conscious of how I
want to proceed to meet my needs and hopefully the needs of others. I
was experiencing on the giraffe level needs for clarity, inclusion,
acceptance, and exploration varrying from met to unmet. Feelings were
swinging wildly. Jackals were howling, nipping, and makine a fuss as
their ears flopped in and out sometimes with the ferocity of a
windmill. It was not so much pain as missery and lonliness I was
With the intention to meet you on a field of connection and