Hi,
as we said a number of times, processing delays are NOT considered in ns-3. This, of course, doesn't means that you can't add them. We just don't provide any built-in model to do that.
About how to add such a delay in each node, it really depends on the specific protocols you're using. I'd say that it's most probable that you'll have to work at routing level (if you're trying to model the processing delay in the routing process). If, however, you're interested in the queueing delay (i.e., access delay), that is already modeled.
Last but not least, for what concerns the "display on the screen a diagnosis of the network" point, please refer to the manual and tutorial for the ns-3 reporting possibilities. To be hones they're very well described in the manual.
Have un,
T.