1) in the pcap file for interface 1 I see packet from Node #4 to Node #1 (I can tell by IP), this is the interface that used for p2p connection to Node #0.
2) In the second pcap file I see packets from Node #4 to Node #1 and vice versa, this is the interface that is used for p2p connection to Node #1
3) and in the third pcap, that sniffs the interface on the p2p connection between Node #3 and Node #2, I see packets from Node #1 to Node #4.
=> That means that Node #1 gets the packets, and responses, but on Node #3 (AKA the router), the udp stream is not on the same path.
When I use Tcp it seems to work just fine.
PHY standard? all connections are point-to-point, if that's what you mean.
where udp forward is being done so I can trace on it and maybe get some sights about what is happening?
and both paths have the same numbers of hops.