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Hanne Rylaarsdam
We hosted a wedding in our backyard for my sister, Mandi, and her new husband Mitch. It was such an honor to be able to host this for them, very thankful for our yard and home that allows for a special occasion to be held here. I am sharing all the wedding event photos, and breaking down the cost of the wedding, in hopes to help you if you are planning a wedding or event!
For the table centerpieces we decided to use a collection of candlesticks from my home, my sisters and friends. Used our favorite battery operated candles in the candlesticks. Paired the candles with mini bud vases with eucalyptus for a touch of green.
We created a spot for the wedding cake in our vintage mail sorter. My brother had the great idea to put cupcakes in all the slots, so of course my sister, Brittany whipped up over 60 cupcakes the day before the wedding! It turned out so pretty.
I (40F) am significantly older than my sister, 25F. As such, after she was born, I was repeatedly looked over and parentified by my parents in favor of her. Examples of this include giving my old clothes and toys to her (without my permission), rather than preserving them as a keepsake of my childhood. In short, my inner child has had to do a lot of healing over the years. I am low contact with my parents and sister, but apparently she is engaged and wants me to be a part of the wedding party.
AITA? I (23F) have been with my boyfriend for ten months. It was his twin sisters wedding three weeks ago and I was his plus one. A lot of things went wrong on her wedding day. First her makeup artist cancelled, then their grandfather got into a car accident, then the bartender cancelled as well. When the bartender cancelled my boyfriend offered me to do it. I am a bartender as my fulltime job and I did want a break from work since this was my only day off for weeks but I agreed with a bawling bride in front of me.
After that my boyfriends sister sent me a long text thanking me profusely saying she so happy I helped out so much and was grateful. I replied thank you and thought she would send a form of compensation but nothing. I felt awkward asking first so I brought it up to my boyfriend and he looked confused saying it was a favor and there was no compensation and that their parents already paid the bartender a lot of money and they weren't getting a full refund plus all the alcohol they bought for the open bar, it would be out of budget and inappropriate for me to ask them to pay me AFTER the wedding already happened. He said his parents planned the wedding not his sister so it would be them that paid me and thats not okay for me to do since they spent so much money already. And that I was being an asshole to even want to ask.
Jamie and Nicole are both extremely dedicated, driven individuals. Through med school and volunteering, these two manage to stay grounded and know how to have a great time! Their ceremony included readings from their friends and family and even their family formals were a blast (weird faces and all). I wish every wedding could be as rambunctious as this costume reception.
Nicole and Jamie had so many personal touches in their wedding. A personalized map, an aunt that played the bagpipes and they incorporated the saran wrap from their first encounter into their wedding reception! This New Orleans wedding was as fun as it was stunning. Here are a few of my favorites from their day!
My sister has a wedding coming up this summer. Its not a destination wedding, it will be in a local park/pavilion, she just told us about it recently and told us to expect the invitations, but we knew it was a possibility with as I heard recently her boyfriend asked our dad about how he would feel if they got married (essentially asking for her hand in marriage, old fashioned but I guess).
Well, when we received the invitations, it said this wedding will be "child free". Once I got my invitation, I called my sister up just to discuss the wedding and give her my response by phone. I didn't mention the child free part, just asked about the wedding and how her planning was going. She seemed excited, told me she can't wait to be the "center of attention" on her special day. I congratulated her, but I told her as its child free and I have two sons, I wouldn't be able to make it, I would send a gift with our parents though.
She kinda got upset and asked why I wasn't going to come. I simply told her weddings are family events for me, and if its not a family event I don't see the point (i.e. kids being allowed). Our parents are the important people to be there for her special day, so I don't feel my presence as direly needed. My sister was very unhappy about this, she yelled that I never even tried to find babysitting or come to her wedding. She got angry because last year I attended our cousins wedding, and she feels hers should be more important and one I should want to attend.
Their wedding wasn't child free, my kids were there, very well behaved and it was definitely a family event. I don't feel that I should shell out money to have someone watch my kids, just to watch her get married and honestly I just don't want to. I didn't mention her changing the rule, I just told her I wouldn't be attending. She got angry and is now involving my husband and parents in my decision, saying if I choose not to come she won't speak to me again (her hill to die on, not my problem). My parents would like me to come just to keep the peace, and my husband says its really my decision and he backs me either way. Personally I don't feel like an Asshole cause I'm not asking her to change anything, I'm just making a personal decision. WIBTA for not attending?
Now my sister is getting married soon. It'll be held hours away so I'll have to travel. The invitation stated "child-free" so I can't take the kids. When John heard about this he told me to immediately call and apologize cause I won't be attending. I was stunned I asked why and he went on about how much the kids adore me and how they'll go crazy when I'm hours away from them. besides, that he's too busy to look after them. I said it's not my fault and he should either take time off work and stay with them or get a babysitter. He threw a fit about how selfish and unfeeling I was and that he will only let me attend the wedding when I tell my sister to let the kids come but I can't ask such thing of her! I INSISTED on going after he kept saying I shouldn't go. He went and told the boys that I was looking for an excuse to get some time away from then and now they won't even speak to me. I confronted him about what he did and he said it's the result of me "insisting" on going to the wedding and choosing my sister over my stepkids. He even said I should be thankful the kids "accept" me for who I am and are giving me this much attention. I was speechless and felt offended.
I am a 46 year old woman. My husband passed away about 18 years ago. Before he left, i promised him i will remain faithful to him for the rest of my life. To this day, ive never taken off my wedding ring. Even when i shower and exercise i leave it on. I have his on a necklace that I also never take off. This will all be important later.
She was a little tipsy so maybe she wasnt all there when she did this but she blurted out "OH my GOD YOU STILL WEAR YOUR RING??" and i said "yeah i always will" and she said GIRL TAKE IT OFF ALREADY AND GET BACK OUT THERE." i said "im not interested" She argued saying that i wear the necklace with his ring on it so i dont "have to" wear my wedding ring. I ignored her and she took my hand and I honestly thought she was going to kiss it and apologize, but she took my ring off my finger and said "much better."
I went home and cried. I feel really bad for yelling at her. I just couldnt control my anger. I felt so disrespected. I told her today I will not be attending her wedding, and now my mom and other sister are saying im a horrible sister and all that.
My bfs sister got engaged a little while back and has began planning. We were notified of the date and he had to ask if I would be invited because I wasn't confident I would be. Apparently I am most definitely invited but tonight he learned through another family member that he was going to be part of the wedding party, despite not being asked by either the bride or groom yet. This has changed my feelings regarding the situation.
If we were attending the wedding together, I would feel more comfortable since he would be around. But now I would have to spend nearly an entire day alone in a city several hours away from our home while he is busy with the rehearsal, and travel separately to the wedding where I will be sat alone during the ceremony and at the dinner after the ceremony.
When I expressed my concerns he said not all weddings are the same and to essentially get over it. Sure, their wedding might be set up differently to the ones I have been to before, but I still don't feel comfortable around people I don't know and around people I know don't like me. I know myself and I will look miserable and like I'm "not trying" to everyone there.
Tl;dr My boyfriends sister is getting married and I don't have a good relationship with the family. Boyfriend has been asked to be in the wedding so I will be by myself for most of it and that makes me very uncomfortable. WIBTA if I just didn't go?
So my sister is getting married next February, destination wedding no less. I have doubts whether this wedding is actually going to happen with the pandemic and everything but she is totally set on moving forward.
But big events like weddings (not to even mention with travel!), can be stressful or difficult to manage at times with a baby in any setting.. And at my little sisters wedding, maybe more than other times, I was so thankful for babywearing, and on many occasions!
My sister has her dream wedding planned, she has been dreaming of her wedding all her life and has everything down to the t. She has her cake, her venue, her dress, the bridesmaids dresses and the flower arrangements all prepared.
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