I did use the --host option.
Here is my scenario.
1) I have ran the node process one the first machine (10.0.0.2) as
follows:
$ node --debug-brk main.js
debugger listening on port 5858
2) Consequently I ran the ndb on the second machine:
$ ./bin/ndb --host 10.0.0.2
Could not connect to host 10.0.0.2 on port 5858. Will try again in 2
seconds.
Could not connect to host 10.0.0.2 on port 5858. Will try again in 2
seconds.
Both machines in the local network and there is no firewall.
Honza