rss = residential set a.k.a. the pages that are actually in memory
heap(Total|Used) = the chunk of memory that's used for dynamic
allocations
UMEM_DEBUG turned on. This is inspired by
https://www.joyent.com/blog/walmart-node-js-memory-leak
It would require significant analysis on the memory trace although and not a fit for real-time monitoring.
I just stumbled upon the new core module "tracing". Its part of v0.11 so this is more for future reference than production use for most projects I guess.It brings with it a gc-event which seems promising with before / after stats: https://github.com/joyent/node/blob/master/doc/api/tracing.markdown#v8