Pros And Cons Of The Reverse Cowboy Position
Here’s the latest in a series of sex articles dedicated to giving you
all the pros and cons on different sex positions. If you are new to
the series, here’s what you have missed: the first article outlined
the pros and cons of the 69 position; the second article delved into
the advantages and disadvantages of the female on top position; the
third article looked into the missionary position; and the fourth
article gave readers a heads up on the doggie style position. The
fifth article gave you information on the pros and cons of the
spooning position.
This article is here to provide you with everything you need to know
about the Reverse Cowboy Position, a variation of the female on top
position/missionary position. If she likes being on top and you want
to try something new, then check out all the details on this exciting
sexual position.
What’s the reverse cowboy position and why is it called that?
The reverse cowboy position is pretty easy on the man. He just has to
lie on his back with an erection – how difficult can that be, right?
The woman straddles the man but faces away from him. This means that
your view will be a backdoor view as she moves up and down on your
penis.
It’s called the reverse cowboy because the woman is facing away from
the man while riding him like a bucking bronco. And, with a name like
that, you will likely understand that this isn’t a sensual, slow
lovemaking kind of position. This is an aggressive, fun and visually
stimulating position (for the men anyway).
Getting started with the reverse cowboy position
If you’ve never tried this position, or if you’ve never heard of it,
don’t worry. It’s not one of those intensely difficult Kama Sutra
positions that only gymnasts can actually master. This one is easy to
figure out which makes it even easier to enjoy. Couples that enjoy and
are used to female on top positions will find this an easy one. All
you have to do is turn her around when she gets on top of you. That
way, you can enjoy the view from where you are and if you have a
mirror on the wall across from the bed, she will be able to enjoy the
view from her vantage point as well. At first, the positioning may
take some getting used to because everyone has a different comfort
level. This will just take a bit of simple experimenting to get used
to the exact angles that work best for you and her.
Cons
Now that we’ve got your full attention, it’s time to break the bad
news to you – the cons of the reverse cowboy position. But don’t
worry, the cons aren’t that bad. After all, it’s still sex, right? How
bad could it possibly be?
Some men find this position a bit awkward. This is because the man’s
penis has to be bent forward (down) in order to be inserted into the
woman’s vagina. Some men are able to bend quite easily; others find it
more difficult. Until you try, you won’t know if this is a problem or
not.
No direct clitoral stimulation – This is another position where the
female doesn’t receive any direct clitoral stimulation. This can be
problematic for some women who only achieve orgasm through direct
clitoral stimulation, and in this position, the man can’t reach her
clitoris. However, this can be remedied by encouraging the woman to
stimulate herself during intercourse.
Lack of intimacy – If you or your partner are looking for slow,
sensual sex with loads of intimacy, then the reverse cowboy might not
be the best position for you. This position doesn’t involve any eye
contact or intimate touching or kissing. You can’t snuggle and hug
while you are in this position. This can be remedied by starting sex
while you are facing each other and then moving into the reverse
cowboy position after a while.
Pros
The great thing about the reverse cowboy position is that there are
lots of positive features about it. Check out the pros for yourself:
It’s different – If you and your partner are tired of the same old
positions – him on top or her on top – then this position is great for
adding a little variety to your sex lives. It’s a change of view for
the man – he gets to enjoy the backdoor view and this may be very
stimulating for him.
She’s in charge – Women like female superior positions because it
gives them a chance to be in charge during sex. In this position, the
man is basically passive and the woman controls all the movement, the
speed and the depth of penetration.
It’s versatile – She can kneel and lower herself onto his penis or she
can crouch and then use her legs to power her movements up and down.
Plus, to add more intimacy, you can do this in front of a mirror so
that she can see what’s happening too and watch how turned on you are
getting.
Deep penetration at a speed she controls – Women tend to take longer
to reach orgasm than men do. For this reason, positions that place the
female in charge are very good for them because they can control how
deep they like the penetration and how fast too. This will ensure that
she reaches orgasm too.
She can stimulate herself – Even though this position isn’t conducive
direct clitoral stimulation, the female can use her fingers or even
break out a small vibrator to stay aroused during sex.
Don’t let the name scare you
Some people are put off by the name alone because it sounds a bit
rough around the edges. This position can be great for both partners
as it provides visual stimulation for men and control for women. Give
it a try and it might become a favorite for both of you!
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