श्रीमती निशा मनदीप ख्यालिया कि टिप्पणी: 2.श्री असोके रे कि टिपण्णी: 3. Indian sarpanch dazzles at UN meet 4. Power of words 5. Happiness 6. complete awaraa...
Ramanuj Asawa
मैं कभी कभी सोचता हूँ कि ऐसी कोई चीज मेल में ना डालूँ जिससे किसी को आपत्ति हो. लेकिन फिर ऐसा भी होता है कि रामजी के राज में भी धोबी था.
हमने कहा "दिल चीज़ क्या है आप मेरी जान लीजिये" और उन्होंने हमारी जान ही ले ली. तो भाइयों और बहनों यह हमारे साथ ही नहीं हुवा है, यत्र तत्र सर्वत्र हमेशा होता आया है और होता रहेगा. इसी बात पर यह खुबसूरत गाना या ग़ज़ल जो भी आप चाहे कहो, सुन सकते हो.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rTRmexUJqWo
इन दिनों कई लोगों से मेल आ रही है कि सचिन जो कि इंडियन क्रिकेट के भगवान हैं उन्हें पद्मश्री मिलना चाहिए. इस देश में सभी को कुछ ना कुछ चाहिए. जब से डॉ श्री पुरुषोत्तम जी मीणा "निरंकुश" से हमारी पहचान हुई है तब से हमें भी लगने लगा कि हम भी सेवा कार्य कर रहे हैं हमें भी कुछ मिलना चाहिए. तो हमारे एक मेम्बर श्री असोके रे साहब ने हमें काफ़ी भारी उपाधि दे डाली "Dictator". मैं श्री मीणा जी से जानना चाहता हूँ कि उनको निरंकुश कि उपाधि किसी ने दी या उन्होंने ने अपने आप ली. चूँकि हम एक स्वतंत्र देश में रहते हैं तो हमको अपने विचार पेश करने कि छूट है और दूसरों को उनके अपने विचार. इसी प्रकार हमको अपने नाम उपनाम इत्यादि बदलने या रखने कि छूट है. एक शपथ पत्र लिखो और नाम बदल लो. मुझे काफ़ी पहले से लोग लिखने के लिए प्रोत्साहित करते थे लेकिन सही मायनों में प्रोत्साहन श्री मीणा जी के फ़ोन पर बात होने के बाद मिला. आजतक मैं अनजान लोगों को फ़ोन कर के बात कर लेता था. लेकिन वे पहले व्यक्ति हैं जिन्होंने मुझे फ़ोन किया.
लोगों कि टिप्पणियों के जवाब देना या सबको खुश रखना मेरे बस की बात नहीं है. अनर्गल बातों का तो कोई जवाब हो भी नहीं सकता है. जहाँ तक महिलाओं पर अत्याचार की बात है मैंने तो अपने परिवार या आसपास ऐसा होते नहीं देखा. जब से श्री राजेश जी वखारिया जी से पहचान हुई है तब से यह मालूम पड़ने लगा है कि आजकल पढ़ी लिखी महिलाएं कानून का सहारा लेकर अपने पति के परिवारों को बर्बाद कर रही है. उनके आंकड़े चौंकाने वाले है. यदि किसी को जानकारी चाहिए तो वह उनसे सम्पर्क कर सकता है. वह save india family foundation नामकी संस्था के नागपुर क्षेत्र के प्रभारी है. वह facebook पर भी मौजूद हैं. यदि मान लें कि महिलाओं पर पहले अत्याचार हुए हैं तो क्या अब उसका बदला पुरुषों पर अत्याचार करके लिया जायेगा? क्या न्याय इसी को कहते हैं? और एक बात का जवाब मैं भी चाहता हूँ कि क्या हर चीज को बेचने के लिए इश्तहारों में महिलाओं का इस्तेमाल हमारे समाज को कहाँ ले जा रहा है. माना कि यह दुनियाँ perfect नहीं है लेकिन यह भी सही है कि the world is not fair. तो इसका यह मतलब नहीं के कोई अन्ना हजारे आगे आये ही नहीं और आये तो फिर उसकी टांग खिंची जाय कि वह क्या अभी तक सो रहे थे?
चन्दन और सर्प का उदाहरण एक जीवित चीज का निर्जीव चीज पर प्रभाव कि बात करता है. तो टिपण्णी करने वालों ने यह भी जानना चाहिए कि उदारहण सन्दर्भ के अनुसार होना चाहिए. हमने बचपन में सन्दर्भ सहित व्याख्या पढ़ी है. इसीलिए हमारे सामने ऐसे उदहारण ना दें तो अच्छा है.
श्रीमती निशा मनदीप ख्यालिया कि टिप्पणी:
From: NISHA MANDEEP KHYALIA <nch8...@gmail.com>
श्री असोके रे कि टिपण्णी:
From: Asoke Ray <raya...@yahoo.in>
I FULLY DISAGREE WITH YOUR VIEWS EXPRESSED HITHERTO. IF YOU WANT THE SUBSCRIBERS SHOULD ONLY TOE TO YOUR LINE YOU ARE MISTAKEN. AND DON'T MAKE IT YOUR PRIVATE CHANNEL OF EXPRESING YOUR AND ONLY YOUR OWN OPINION. IN MY OPINION ALL INDIAN HYPOCRITES INDULGE IN MORAL POLICING, AND YOU ARE NO EXCEPTION. I SAY WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE THE AJANTA OR KHAJURAHO'S VALUES.
There was a sense of disbelief among ministers and ambassadors from diverse nations when the chairperson of the 11th Info-Poverty World Conference held at the United Nations introduced the jeans-clad Chhavi Rajawat as head of a village in India.
For, from a distance one could easily mistake Rajawat, an articulate, computer-savvy woman, for a frontline model or at least a Bollywood actress. But she is sarpanch of Soda village, 60km from Jaipur, in backward Rajasthan and the changing face of growing dynamic rural India.
The 30-year-old Rajawat, India's youngest and the only MBA to become a village head - the position mostly occupied by elders, quit her senior management position with Bharti-Tele Ventures of Airtel Group to serve her beloved villagers as sarpanch.
Rajawat participated in a panel discussion at the two-day meet at the UN on March 24 and 25 on how civil society can implement its actions and spoke on the role of civil society in fighting poverty and promoting development.
It is necessary to re-think through various strategies of action that includes new technologies like e-services in achieving the Millennium Development Goals (MDGs) in an era where resources have become limited, she told the delegates of the international conference.
"If India continues to make progress at the same pace as it has for the past 65 years since independence, it just won't be good enough. We'll be failing people who dream about having water, electricity, toilets, schools and jobs. I am convinced we can do it differently and do it faster.
"In the past year alone, I and the villagers in Soda have brought about a radical change in the village purely through our own efforts. We have had no outside support - no NGO help, no public, nor private sector help," she said.
On achieving Millennium Development Goals (MDGs), Rajawat said she sought full support from outside agencies and the corporate world. "I thank United Nations office for Partnerships (UNOP) which had deputed its senior adviser in India Mr Babu Lal Jain to visit Soda and extend all support in the opening of the first bank in the village. That made all the difference."
"In three years I will transform my village. I don't want money. I want people and organisations to adoptprojects in my village as often projects fail owing to lack of a local connect and that is what I am here to provide by bridging that gap.
"I want the conference to help bring about faster change so that this generation can enjoy that kind of life that I - and you in this audience - take for granted," she said to thunderous cheers from the delegates.
After her session, Rajawat told Press Trust of India: "It (service to villagers) has been a journey to my roots. This was not pre-planned. I am paying my debt to the village where I grew up."
Prior to becoming sarpanch of Soda which has a population of 10,000 people who are predominantly dependant on agriculture, Rajawat was looking after 'Kailrugji, The Hotel' - a family-run hospitality business in Jaipur.
Rajawat, who rides a horse named Magic, conducts village meetings dressed in jeans and T-shirt in a state where women cover their face with a veil as part of the tradition. "It should change. There is so much one can do to break the barriers," she says.
"My business management degree is helping me take care of the village administration and infuse a fresh blood. I am not thinking this as a career but sort of social work," she says.
"... my focus is on bringing safe drinking water and increasing job opportunities in the village by involving NGOs," says Rajawat, who works seven days a week for the welfare of her village. "There is so much to be done."
Rajawat found to her dismay that the school system was bad beyond description. "Each school has only two or three teachers for a total of 400-500 students. I want to get a private college in the village and have identified 75 acres of land for construction. I am working with non-resident Rajasthanis and have urged them to come and start a college in my village."
Rajawat was also invited to the India Today Youth Summit 2010 and shared the platform with eminent persons such as Nandan Nilekani, Viswanathan Anand, Sachin Pilot, Sourav Ganguly, Katrina Kaif, Jaideep Sahni, Sanjeev Sanyal and Mukul Deora.
"I am just a village girl who has had an opportunity to study in some of the best institutions in the country and has only gone back home to work with and for her people. It's as simple as that. Don't run away from your roots because that is your foundation and the nation's foundation too. If you want to make a difference, you have got to start at the bottom. There is so much one can do," she says.
http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report_indian-sarpanch-dazzles-at-un-meet_1524927The power of words:
From: Sandipan Biswas <sandip...@gmail.com>
See what a brilliant Woman can do!
From: Vishal Mahesh <vishal...@yahoo.com>
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One on the most convincing pieces on happiness.
Khushwant Singh at his best. The rationale applied to each preference is absolutely top class. EIGHT CLUES TO HAPPINESS |
Having
lived a reasonably contented life, I was musing over what a person should
strive for to achieve happiness. I drew up a list of a few essentials which I
put forward for the readers' appraisal.
1. First and foremost is GOOD HEALTH. If you do not enjoy good health you can never be happy. Any
ailment, however trivial, will deduct from your happiness.
2. Second, A HEALTHY BANK BALANCE. It need not run into crores but should be enough to provide
for creature comforts and something to spare for recreation, like eating out,
going to the pictures, travelling or going on holidays on the hills or by the
sea. Shortage of money can be only demoralizing. Living on credit or
borrowing is demeaning and lowers one in one's own eyes.
3. Third, A HOME OF YOUR OWN. Rented premises
can never give you the snug feeling of a nest which is yours for keeps that a
home provides: if it has a garden space, all the better. Plant your own trees
and flowers, see them grow and blossom, cultivate a sense of kinship with
them.
4. Fourth, AN UNDERSTANDING COMPANION,
be it your spouse or a friend. If there are too many misunderstandings, they
will rob you of your peace of mind. It is better to be divorced than to
bicker all the time.
5. Fifth, LACK OF ENVY
towards those who have done better than you in life; risen higher, made more
money, or earned more fame. Envy can be very corroding; avoid comparing
yourself with others.
6. Sixth, DO NOT ALLOW OTHER PEOPLE to descend on you for gup-shup. By the time you get rid of
them, you will feel exhausted and poisoned by their gossip-mongering.
7. Seventh, CULTIVATE SOME HOBBIES which can bring you a sense of fulfilment, such as gardening,
reading, writing, painting, playing or listening to music. Going to clubs or
parties to get free drinks or to meet celebrities is criminal waste of
time.
8. Eighth, every morning and evening, devote 15 minutes to INTROSPECTION. In the morning, 10
minutes should be spent on stilling the mind and then five in listing things
you have to do that day. In the evening, five minutes to still the mind
again, and ten to go over what you had undertaken to do.
RICHNESS is not Earning More, Spending More Or
Saving More, but ...
"RICHNESS IS WHEN YOU NEED NO MORE"
So often we make ourselves unhappy.... Here's some good commonsense advice from a writer....who is well in his nineties and still has loads of fun....
complete awaraa...
From: Swapan Mukherjee <swapan.m...@gmail.com>
Yesterday I was having some work done at the Maruti dealer. A woman came in and asked for a seven-hundred- ten. We all looked at each other, and the mechanic asked, "What is a seven-hundred- ten?" She replied, "You know, the little piece in the middle of the engine. I lost it and need a new one. It had always been there." The mechanic gave the woman a piece of paper and a pen and asked her to draw what the piece looked like. She drew a circle and in the middle of it wrote 710 !! He then took her over to another car which had the hood up and asked, "Is there a 710 on this car?" She pointed and said, "Of course, it's right there." Now go to the photo below to learn what a 710 is.......... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... .... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ...  Women ? The mechanic fainted!! J |
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ॐ सर्वे भवन्तु सुखिनः, सर्वे सन्तु निरामयः
सर्वे भद्राणि पश्यन्तु, मा कश्चिद दुखभाग भवेत्.
May all be happy. May all enjoy health and freedom from disease.
May all have prosperity and good luck. May none suffer or fall on evil days.