Someone’s impersonating me on Ashley Madison
Can anyone help?
There is an account on Ashley Madison (a dating site for married people wanting affairs) that is using my name, photos and a location very close to my last address. People who have been talking me “me” on there have managed to find my real social media profiles and add me on them. How can I report this account without being a member?
A similar thing happened with Tinder a few months ago. Any way to work our who’s doing this without going on MTV?
My wife is having an affair
I need to hear, the people on this site thoughts. I need enlightenment, and i feel stuck. Firstly, it's a marital problem.
I feel that i can't breath, i feel that i am getting drained.
So, everything started when my wife expresses to me that i emotionally neglected her for at least 5 years. The other side of the coin is that i dont feel that i emotionally neglected her, i feel that i always was there for her.
A little background of our life: Our life started in Puerto Rico in 2011, that's when we became a couple. During this time, we dated, and had fun. Eventually life was taking its toll, i needed to move to another city, and we talked, and agreed that we were going to move together to another city. However, she stayed for her family. I understood the situation and i stayed with her, she told me she felt bad, and that she needed to remove me from her heart, so she "cheated". Her mother noticed this, and kicked her out of her home, and she didn't have another place to go, so i took her in. We talked, and talked, and agreed to give the relationship another chance. However, even if i agreed to forgive the affair, a part of me wasn't the same, a part of me didn't fully trust her. But it was something that i worked a lot, it was something that i thought i could handle, because i gave her my word that i forgave her. Meanwhile, since we were living together, we had a child, a good and healthy boy. He is someone that i love very much, and i am thankful of life that it came from her. During this time, i was attending college, and she was as well, however, we dropped college, and i joined the US AIR FORCE. i attended BMT, and tech school, and got move to my first PCS. Afterwards, i went to get her to move her with me, and it was very happy. She was attending university online for Criminal Justice, and i begin attending my classes on local college because my classes were not offered online, specially since i wanted to do computer engineering. At least for me, this classes drained me physically and mentally, and her classes not as much, but my wife needed to take care of my son, while i worked, and went to classes. I did my best to provide, and help around the house, because i knew my wife was here all alone, and all of this was rough. At first, my wife didnt want to get a driver license, because she was "afraid" of the place. She didn't want to live my son on a day care because she was afraid that something was going to happen, and she didnt want to speak english, because she was afraid that people made fun of her. All of this made me that i needed to take fully of them. In top of this, my wife wanted better furniture, another car, and another baby. However, i didnt feel mentally prepared for having another child in my life. I was the only one working, so we couldn't afford another car or buy new furniture. My wife begin to resent me for a long time, in addition the area were we live is extremely expensive because is a military + tourist zone, so having fun is basically breaking the bank. However, i always tried my best to go sometimes for dinner, and watch movies at the theater as a family. But this wasn't enough for her.... The time passes, and she began meeting new friends over the neighborhood, and my wife started going out to clubs with them. At first it was kind of cool, she started smiling again, Meanwhile, after 4 years, my wife finally finished her criminal justice degree, and my salary was better than when i joined so i decided that i was ready to have another family member in our family. However, after 3 months my wife had a miscarriage. She started to say to herself how a failure of a woman and mother she was, she started to be everyday in depression. then, she started drifting away from our relationship, and home. The distance started to grow because she started to BLAME me for her depression of feeling alone. Her friends started to get fully involve in our relationship, and likewise my wife on theirs, our home was a total mess.
After the miscarriage, my wife was "ok", she was dealing with her sadness, and i was there making sure i was there for every step she took to make sure she still stand another day. However, after 5 months, we were in bed, she cuddles with me, like we were doing every single night, and she put her weight on me, and i told her could you move to the side i can barely breath, and took a tablet because i was reading a book. Her reaction was that i called her FAT, and she has never forgive me this, this is when our problems started. She completely detached from me, and begin cutting me from her life. She started to bring all the things that had happened in our marriage: little things, that she accumulated for years, like how she felt that i abandoned her for college and work. how i treated her like she was useless... The problem with this, i always asked her if she is happy in our marriage and during our entire marriage she always said: YES... and now she comes throwing all this trash to my face. After that, she started to meet a guy, and an affair started. Once, i was searching for a GYM card, and there was a paper narrating how there were having sex, and how in love she was with him, how alive he made her felt. When i ask her, we talked, but nothing was resolved. It has being 3 months since i discover her affair, and 9 months since we are "separated" but living in the same house... I being trying to convince her to get a divorce, but she doesn't want to... She tells me that she doesnt love me anymore, but that she needs my help for her to get a better job, since she is going to the police academy in august, after that we can get a divorce. Sometimes, she talks about a future together as "friends" not beyond that, like sharing expenses, and moments... but nothing more. While she is in love with this other guy.... Recently i made her pay her own phone service, because is the phone she uses to talk to her boyfriend and i felt humiliated that she is using the phone plan that i pay to talk to another guy. Recently she talk about having another baby but via artificial insemination with my sperm, and that has me stuck. Our daily interaction is like a marriage minus the kisses, hugs, love, commitment, and intimidation.
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In addition, i have talk to her to try counseling for herself, because she has being thru alot including her childhood. All she says is that she is not going to to that because she doesnt want to damage her record, because she wants to be a police.