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Affairs & Discreet Married Dating : Top 10 Affair Dating Sites for Extramarital Relations

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Feb 18, 2020, 4:01:22 AM2/18/20
Millions of people just like you are looking for a discreet connection
Every day thousands of people join Ashley Madison to find discreet relationships of all kinds. Single, attached, looking to explore, or just curious to discover what's out there — Ashley Madison is the most open-minded dating community in the world.

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Ashley Madison, or The Ashley Madison Agency, is a Canadian online dating service and social networking service marketed to people who are married or in relationships. It was founded in 2002 by Darren Morgenstern, with the slogan "Life is short. Have an affair".

We know you value your privacy, and so do we. We will never ask you to log in with a public social network account, and we have several features designed to help you keep your private life private, whatever your reasons.

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You do not need to link your Ashley Madison account to any other social network. In fact, you can't. Instead, use a private email address (for greater discretion, we recommend using a unique email only for this account).

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You control exactly what you want people to see! Do you want to show your smile on your profile picture? Excellent! But if you are looking to add a little more mystery, you can use our blur or mask tools. For greater discretion, you can mark the photos as private and only share them with the members that attract your attention.

Inbox control
We know that sometimes it can be daunting to see an inbox full of messages. We help you manage your time and connections with our Quick Response feature. If you have too many winks or favorites, you can quickly and easily inform those members that you would be happy to answer a complete message. That means less time spent responding to people with whom you may not be the best partner and more time to find the discrete relationship you really want.

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The thrill of traveling to a new city can be amplified when it includes meeting someone new. With the Traveling Man and Traveling Woman functions, you can find those connections even before packing. Send messages to the members of your destination city in advance to combine business with pleasure.

Just take a moment
It is very easy to get caught in the routine. We count the hours instead of enjoying our time and yearn for something else, but in the end we are left with the mundane, boring and daily activities that shape our lives.

Occasionally, something special happens. A fleeting look, an accidental touch, a returned smile: these moments show us a glimpse of something different, something else. We think about them and what they might mean for us, the path not taken and life not lived.

But what if you could make those moments take place yourself? Do you feel the butterflies, experience the desire and know what it is not only to live but really to come alive? Ashley Madison is the place to start your journey, to find your time.

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Whatever takes you to Ashley Madison, you can feel safe knowing you're not alone. Our members are single, attached and looking for a loving partner, or attached and looking for something polyamorous. They look for online flirting, something informal and discreet relationships. They are students, mothers and fathers who stay at home, clerks, merchants, businessmen, retirees and everyone else. Sexual orientation, marital status, age, wealth and religion are not important here. Everyone has different reasons to join a dating site like Ashley Madison, but they are united in a desire to seek real and discreet connections. No matter what your reason, circumstances or what you are looking for, you will find what is missing at Ashley Madison.

Adult Dating Canada
At No Strings Dating, we offer Canadian singles the opportunity to enjoy connecting with like-minded people in their area to have fun with adults. Designed to give you the opportunity to meet people who share your tastes and interests, our adult dating site is divided so you can locate men and women who are looking for the same type of adult fun that you are. Of course, being a high quality sexual dating site that allows you to connect with like-minded adults, we ensure that everyone who uses the service is properly verified so you can be sure that our members are real. Unlike other sites, we use a proactive moderation system. In fact, we also have a customer service team that has won awards for its level of service, something that is a great contrast to the "free" alternatives. Read on for more information about us, you'll be glad you did!

Discover the sex dating scene in Canada
In common with several other Western countries, Canada has a vibrant connection scene that only expects new people to enjoy it. To be clear, the adult connection scene is not exactly the same as the conventional dating scene where, in general, people are looking for a life partner. When it comes to sex dating, it's not about adult fun. If you want to find someone who looks sexy and you want to meet, then the connection scene is for you. There are no expectations of taking things further unless you wish. In addition, there are people you can find, both men and women, who will share your particular interests and your perversity. This makes enjoying adult fun much more convenient than a conventional dating site where, of course, you are much less likely to find someone who is sexually compatible with you. Regardless of what particular thing excites you, you will surely find a person who shares your preferences in No Strings Dating, the ideal way to enter the casual dating scene in Canada.

Bbw dating
Anyone looking to connect with a big and beautiful woman will find exactly what they are looking for without a date. There are many women with a more complete figure who are registered on the site waiting to exchange naughty messages and organize a meeting. Men and women who like to make their partners more curved will not be disappointed with the BBW dating service we offer. In fact, whether you're looking for flirtatious fun or someone to connect with immediately, there will be a woman of like-minded ideas for you with all the curves you're looking for. BBW quotes are incredibly popular in No Strings Dating and there are some amazing women to watch and make the ball roll.

Milf dating
Chatting with an older lady at your local bar may be something that takes you somewhere, but it can be a very unpredictable approach. In No Strings Dating, on the other hand, you can find some tremendously attractive MILFs who are willing to have mature sex now. Whether you are looking for a MILF that shares your specific sexual interests or simply wants to meet a mature woman in your area to have a little fun with adults, we believe you will be delighted to have made appointments without obligation. Finding a casual partner has never been so easy, especially when it comes to finding a MILF that turns you on in all the right ways. In addition, there are many mature women ready to show you the experience they have in the bedroom!

Cougar Dating
Younger men looking for older women will be surprised at the beautiful women looking for them on our cougar dating site. Therefore, registering could really change your experience with the adult dating scene in Canada, as you will surely find an impressive older woman with all the experience you are looking for. Of course, older women who wish to connect with an energetic young man will also not be disappointed! Our site allows cougars to select from an excellent selection of young men, each of them ready to please where it matters most. Of course, with a site without ties like ours, everything is discreet and under the radar, so you can be sure of informal fun without undue consequences.

Granny Dating
Have no doubt that older women need care and attention as much as younger women and many enjoy a sexy lifestyle too! If you are a mature woman looking to enjoy some casual fun with a younger man, then No Strings Dating is really the place for you. Similarly, s

The first online dating site of this type
When Ashley Madison started in 2001, there weren't many places where adults could go for discreet appointments. Meeting someone at work or through friends is too risky when discretion is your main concern. Many turned to traditional online dating websites, but found it difficult to connect with people looking for a similar type of agreement. And so, Ashley Madison was created as the first open and honest website about what could be found there: like-minded people looking for marriage dates. As a place free of judgment, Ashley Madison revolves around the idea that consenting adults should be able to do what they want in private. What started over a decade ago soon became the international leader in the matter of dating. Originally designed specifically for married men and women seeking extramarital affairs in the most discreet way possible, since then it has evolved to be much more.

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Feb 18, 2020, 4:06:10 AM2/18/20
There are people out there who are not looking for a relationship. This is really quite common. However, this means that they are missing sex. It does not have to be this way. If you are in a place in your life where you feel you are not ready to commit, but you still want sex, there is a great place for you. If you are simply looking for sex, there are connection sites designed specifically for this purpose. You would be surprised at the number of women who expect to find someone to simply relate to. Women only want sex as much as men, if not more. However, due to the double standards in society, women cannot express that. These connection sites, therefore, offer the perfect place for women to meet men for casual sex.

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The first thing before joining any dating site to have sex is to know exactly what you want. You have to make sure that you can face having sex without conditions. If you are one of those who quickly attach you, this may not be for you. Remember that these sites are designed specifically for people looking for a relationship without ties. Therefore, sexual dating sites are only for people who are not looking to engage with anyone. Once you decide that this is the route you want to take, it's time to move on to the next step to join the site.

Join sexual dating sites
You can easily find a one-night adventure online for casual sex. If you are looking for something more regular, it is possible to find it online. These sexual dating sites are full of women who don't want anything serious. They just need you to like them enough to sleep with you. Therefore, it makes no sense to join regular dating sites. These are for people who expect something more in the long term. The creators of places to get hooked by sex understand that nobody here takes a relationship seriously. Therefore, you can earn a lot by joining these sites. You won't have to deal with the drama of being with someone who is in a different place from where you are. As long as they both agree that this is just about sex, they have a good chance of making someone lie down.

Be careful with the place where you register
It is a little known secret that most sexual dating sites are scams. That is why you must be very careful with the sites you really join. There is a good chance that you will be scammed online if you do not know what you are doing. In addition to this, you are preparing for failure if you do not know what to look for in a sexual dating website. Fortunately for you, there are resources such as the dating guide that help people like you. There is the perfect opportunity for you to find women to sleep with who are looking for sex as much as you. Make sure you know exactly where to go to have casual sex. There are only a handful of websites that will guarantee any type of results. Therefore, it goes without saying that you should be very careful with what you are doing.

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Another great advantage for you here is that there are genuine reviews that will help you find sexual dating websites. Before trying to find an overnight adventure in Canada, it is crucial that you read these reviews. These can be found on this site. They outline our own personal experiences. From the reviews, you will know which sites are more likely to get results and which ones you should avoid. We've been through all the problems of bad dating sites so you don't have to.

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The fact that he is on this site means that he is already on his way to getting laid. You are already a winner even before you start! This is because you will get out of here with the best knowledge on how to manage sexual dating websites. You will be in the best position to get hooked to have sex with Canadians for several reasons. You will know what sites to use and, more importantly, how to use them. Once you find a woman you really like, don't be shy about what you want. She is also therefore for sex, so don't be shy to get it.

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Feb 18, 2020, 4:42:54 AM2/18/20
On Tuesday, February 18, 2020 at 2:31:22 PM UTC+5:30, wrote:
I enrolled in AM and other similar sites at the end of 2013. It was easy to create a profile and the cost was free as a woman. I was over 40 and I felt extremely lonely and sexually neglected at home. I had not really had sex for more than three years because my husband was always focused on work and had little sexual desire and was not very affectionate verbally or physically. I wanted to feel wanted again, I was desperate for physical intimacy and I was considering a marriage separation. I had turned to porn and masturbation to meet my own sexual / high libido needs and one day the AM site appeared in a window. I really didn't know that what I wanted was an adventure, but it seemed like a way to test the waters and see what it was like to try to meet men again without divorcing me because my children were young.

I received many messages immediately even without a profile picture and started writing to some men who seemed smarter. I really enjoyed the notes and meeting several guys. The guys from other countries or who demanded nude photos or sent cock pictures didn't interest me at all. The site was a bit difficult to maneuver, so I ended up exchanging emails with some guys that I liked because of their suggestion to facilitate communication (and save them money). I really didn't want to receive all the daily notifications from the website that the men were sending messages and then having to access the site and deal with all the aggressive men who sent instant messages. I used the site to detect some good men who seemed mature, respectful and more intellectually compatible with me. I liked those who were more open, who had a sense of humor and who wanted a relationship and not just a one-night adventure.

I met several men for the dates of breakfast or lunch and, depending on the chemistry (or lack thereof), I said thank you and goodbye because I did not feel a physical spark or we decided to meet at a nearby motel to test the waters afterwards I felt comfortable

I had a great time in bed with some of the men, I had my first big orgasm / s, I learned a lot about what is important to me in a good intimate relationship, I was hurt by a couple of men, I had a couple of FWB regulars, and now I'm having an LT 5 years adventure with a man I've fallen in love with. We are friends and lovers ... sometimes it has been difficult and I am not sure what the future holds. I am committed to my marriage while my children live at home, but in the long run I would like to be with my lover. He is a true family man and I am not sure that he will ever leave his wife because he values ​​the family, loves his children very much and does not want to hurt his wife. His wife does not work and could fall apart both financially and emotionally. She does not like sex and focuses on caring for her disabled child, so she does not want to be a moron who leaves them to meet her own needs. None of us want to hurt our spouses or our children ... we just desperately need to feel loved and have sexual intimacy. It has taught me more about how men think, it has been a source of love / support, and I realize that I do have a good husband, even if we are not sexually compatible. Perhaps if my high libido decreases after menopause, I will stay in my marriage and be content with my husband's friendship. But I am still very lonely in my marriage and I wish I could marry a boy who is more affectionate and desires more sex as my lover. In the long run, I need to go or stay and be happy.

I think sites like AM provide a useful service if one wants and needs to find a lover and wants to get married. I think it is very difficult to do this and maintain emotional health if someone wants a real relationship. It's hard to lie and deal with guilt. It is also a risk that can destroy a marriage. If you want to find a lover, you must choose carefully and wisely and know what you want.

Feb 19, 2020, 12:02:40 AM2/19/20
On Tuesday, February 18, 2020 at 2:31:22 PM UTC+5:30, wrote:
It is the great temptation, and it has been going on for millennia. Since humanity came up with the institution of marriage, there have been men and women breaking that pact by succumbing to the charm of infidelity. It has been written in books, it has been sung in songs and it has been expressed in movies, so cheating is part of human nature? Society has emphatically stated that it is not at all.

In fact, humans decided that adultery is not so good that even the Bible dedicated two whole commandments to making unfaithful acts a sin.

But let's be honest, that was thousands of years ago before we had knowledge of psychology or science and Google was not yet a shine for developers. Well ... nothing technological had any sparkle in anyone's eyes yet and the information was as reliable as a rich man in a motel. Humans were basically wild, and the institution of marriage was a way of establishing a sense of social structure, cultural model and perhaps most importantly, economic security.

Fast forward to today and apparently we live in an alternative dimension. We get married because we forge our security with another person on an emotional level and, meanwhile, our economic stability is no longer a matter of life or death. For the new generations, only the idea of ​​marriage makes some people shudder. So what? Are people avoiding marriage or is there a new paradigm for the rules of marriage?

We can point out the concept of open marriages, a discussion that is taboo and fascinating for the mainstream. This 2017 (3) article in the New York Times discusses the possibilities of happiness with non-monogamous couples and the reasons why an extramarital adventure becomes a serious possibility.

Part of this fascinating world of marriage dating is the role that technology plays in making discrete connections easier than ever with online relationship sites. Applications and websites are so common for singles in the connection culture that information about safe places to deceive has spread to the curious, and obviously dissatisfied, the older married but with a demographic aspect.

But first let's take a step back by inserting the scratch disk sound very fast. For those with a more traditional view of marriage, simply thinking about free websites can cause intense disgust. Then, the fact happens and is the cause of serious psychological damage.
However, even people who report happy marriages still give in to the excitement of illicit marital affairs. Is there any hope of surviving an adventure? Exactly what do married men want of affairs and better yet, do married women only want emotional matters? The rabbit hole is deep.

Surprise! There is no agreed definition of what counts as a matter because there are no established rules. Is it coitus? Does a kiss count? How about cyber flirting? Is watching porn a decisive factor? Is it a betrayal of emotional loyalty? The answer can and generally is "yes" to all of the above.

There seems to be a consistent common denominator when it comes to the act of loss. Marriage often seems to suppress a deeply rooted need for self realization that a spouse cannot fulfill. The thrill of rekindling that lost quality is an overwhelming green light to have an adventure.

Esther Perel is a psychotherapist famous for her work in human relationships and the challenges of balancing security and freedom. In her Ted talk, she says (4) “Death and mortality often live in the shadow of an adventure, because they raise these questions. It is this? There is more? Will I spend another 25 years like that? Will I ever feel that thing again?

There, according to Perel, the decision to cross that line of infidelity is a heavier psychological analysis that strikes the roots of an existential crisis. To put it bluntly, an adventure is a middle finger raised to death.

Feb 19, 2020, 4:46:37 AM2/19/20
On Tuesday, 18 February 2020 14:31:22 UTC+5:30, wrote:
ok i only need one thing and thats a guy that wants nothing more then to go down and eat my pussy. thats it if interested great u come i pull em down u eat hopfully a while then leave thats all....thanx

Feb 19, 2020, 5:42:00 AM2/19/20
On Tuesday, February 18, 2020 at 2:31:22 PM UTC+5:30, wrote:
When it comes to the internet, there are rules. Yes, there are rules believe it or not and while some of them are nonsensical, others make a lot of sense. The rule that we’re talking about today is that if it exists, there is porn of it. This is rule number 34 and while it might just seem like it’s a stupid rule that someone put in there for a laugh, it is surprisingly (and sadly) true. So if you’re thinking of a new fetish or wanting to try something within the BDSM lifestyle then porn is going to be a helpful tool for teaching yourself about it.

We’re not saying that you’re going to want to do your learning through pornography alone when it comes to the fetishes that you want to explore with your affair partners. We know as well as you do (or you should know) that porn is generally an idealized version of sex rather than a realistic depiction of it, but it’s hard to deny that for someone who is starting out with an affair or even someone is just interested in something new sexually, that pornography will help give them a taste of it the way that reading about it and fantasizing about it won’t be able to do.

So yes, we’re telling you to watch more porn as if you really needed any more urging to. There are plenty of professionally produced porn movies that cater to most every fetish, but there are also a plethora of amateur videos that would allow you to live the experience more. This way you’ll be able to have a better idea of what your limits would be. If it’s a new fetish for both you and your affair partner, then you can watch the porn videos together.

We do recommend doing some reading though. Watching porn to figure out a fetish, particularly one that is as involved as lifestyle choices like BDSM, is kind of like reading a Harlequin Romance novel to figure out how relationships really work. They’re helpful in their own way and help you to promote your fantasies and/or foster your imagination, but aside from that remember that they’re tools and not instruction manuals.

It might sound stupid and you might not be the type of person to ever try something in an affair that you saw in a porno movie, but you’d be surprised at just how many people see pornography and think that they can emulate it without taking other factors into consideration. If you have a fetish, particularly the more mainstream ones like foot fetishes, you’re going to be able to find a lot of information both online and offline that will help you to figure out how you want to go about indulging this fetish. For some people, pornography is enough whereas for others they need to be able to directly experience their fetish in order to find the gratification that they seek.

So if you’re looking into a new fetish or sex technique?:

Watch porn.
Do some reading on whatever it is you want to do.
Talk openly with your affair partner about what you want to do (no surprises!).

Feb 19, 2020, 9:54:37 AM2/19/20
On Tuesday, 18 February 2020 14:31:22 UTC+5:30, wrote:
I am looking for a man between have very discreet sexy time with. I am bored at work and looking for a toy to play with when I go home for lunch. I Can host.

Feb 21, 2020, 2:05:02 AM2/21/20
On Tuesday, February 18, 2020 at 2:31:22 PM UTC+5:30, wrote:
Fall semester can be busy for a young college man. Fraternity rush, parties, classes, work, girlfriends, no girlfriends, lots of sex, no sex at all...

Are you a horned up college guy looking to explore your wild side.

Have you thought about hooking up with another guy but havent had the nerve to do so.
You probably have to be very discreet and dont want anyone you know to find out what you are curious about.

Is that you? Let's talk about it.

I am a older guy, college educated, working professional, who enjoys helping others explore their curiosities in a private, discreet and safe manner.

I come to Nashville often and can host in a hotel in the metro area when I am here.


Feb 23, 2020, 2:52:25 AM2/23/20
On Tuesday, 18 February 2020 14:31:22 UTC+5:30, wrote:
Hi love bugs let's meet at my place here in North Las Vegas yes it's safe and comfortable and I'm absolutely independent come enjoy your non rushed xxxperience with kaylinnkayy I ask that if interested please only contact me when ready to set up an appointment I would greatly appreciate it

Feb 24, 2020, 1:11:59 AM2/24/20
On Tuesday, 18 February 2020 14:31:22 UTC+5:30, wrote:
Here are 7 dating sites for married people that you'd have to see to believe:
Marital Affairs. Marital Affairs promises discretion and even gives some pointers for how to get the most effective results out of your affair. ...
Married Secrets. ...
Victoria Milan. ...
Hush Affairs. ...
Illicit Encounters. ...
Find New Passions. ...

Feb 24, 2020, 11:50:11 PM2/24/20
On Tuesday, 18 February 2020 14:31:22 UTC+5:30, wrote:
Looking 4 a man who wants to spend some time between my legs; I love oral.
I'll bend over doggy style and you can Suck my clit and lick me from my ass hole to clit,
I'd even want to sit on your dick.

Feb 26, 2020, 12:29:19 AM2/26/20
On Tuesday, 18 February 2020 14:31:22 UTC+5:30, wrote:
Dudes talk about lasting like 3 hours in sex, but I last like 3 minutes while jerking off? Am I just destine to displease any woman or do I have a chance?
Like honestly what the fuck, I mean I can last longer than actually 3 minutes obviously but honestly sometimes hardly. If I'm not using porn I can do like an easy hour or something, but I imagine real life sex is way hottee than porn, so how the fuck am I supposed to last.

Feb 27, 2020, 12:46:36 AM2/27/20
On Tuesday, 18 February 2020 14:31:22 UTC+5:30, wrote:
I cannot cum when I have sex with someone for the first time
In my experience I cannot cum when I only have sex with someone once...I love women and want them to come. But its never happened

Feb 28, 2020, 12:56:08 AM2/28/20
On Tuesday, 18 February 2020 14:31:22 UTC+5:30, wrote:
Is this being a mug?
I have been talking to a guy for two months on Snapchat. We’ve only hung out twice at each others houses and have good chemistry. Recently I didn’t reply to a Snapchat because he was being cold, anyway I haven’t heard from him in a week since that. He’s been tagging this girl in memes on Facebook since then (pretty sure they matched on tinder before he met me). Should I send him a casual Snapchat again or let his ass go?

Feb 29, 2020, 12:16:46 AM2/29/20
On Tuesday, 18 February 2020 14:31:22 UTC+5:30, wrote:
PSA: guys, try to not think of cumming during sex
As a guy raised on porn I feel like I spent the first several years of my sex life always trying to either go as fast and hard as possible and cum or hold out and go somewhere else in my mind so I could last longer and make my partner cum, but after a few conversations with different women who talked about regularly not cumming during sex and just enjoying the act I realized how much better it is to take sex moment by moment, really enjoying each touch, movement, kiss, etc. and trying to stretch out and slow down that pleasure to last longer instead of leaving the moment and thinking about baseball or whatever when things get close to the edge. I found that by taking this approach I am aware of way more feedback from my own body and my partner’s and I’ve now had several experiences in which my partner has come and is tapped out before me, and instead of being frustrated I’m ecstatic, and love the intimacy and passion I get from these sessions. I’m sure it’s been said here before but sex for orgasm is honestly just not the greatest sex you could be having.

Mar 1, 2020, 2:05:23 AM3/1/20
On Tuesday, February 18, 2020 at 2:31:22 PM UTC+5:30, wrote:
Started seeing someone who is sometimes dressed up as a woman
I have recently swiped right on a guy who crossdresses, because i don't really know what i want in dating, so i just swipe interesting people. We really hit it off from the first meeting and have met several times now. The only thing is that he's a switch as in when he is a guy he's dominant and when he is dressed as a woman he's submissive. I don't have any experience in this nor have i ever fantasised about being a dom, but i really like him as a person, so i was wondering do any of you have some advice or have been through a similar experience?

Mar 2, 2020, 12:08:13 AM3/2/20
On Tuesday, 18 February 2020 14:31:22 UTC+5:30, wrote:
My girlfriend is 10x hornier than an average female and its amazing
We’ve been dating for about 4 months now, and this is easily the best sex I’ve had in my whole life. She has a hormone imbalance that causes her to be extra sensitive and also crave sex significantly more than an average person. She’s been suppressing it for her whole life because she was always made to feel ashamed about the way she is, but I told her that I love her just the way she is, and to not hold back with me. I have a pretty high sex drive myself, and being able to have sex with someone with a sex drive as high as hers feels absolutely liberating. I’m the luckiest guy in the world.

Mar 2, 2020, 11:47:14 PM3/2/20
On Tuesday, 18 February 2020 14:31:22 UTC+5:30, wrote:
Is my [19M] college ex-girlfriend [F18] harassing me? She sent someone to force himself into my dorm room. Was I right for taking administrative action?
I'm a freshman in a US private university. Last semester I dated a girl, who we'll call Red. Long story short, Red and I broke up in one of the most hostile, volatile ways a relationship can end. She was extremely manipulative and used me for my time and money, and the breakup was me cutting her off from said privilege. After the breakup she continued to hound me about being friends, and it led into a huge argument in which we disowned each other.

One of my Christmas gifts to her, a blanket, was still in my room. I forgot about it, and had she asked for it back, I would have given it back. But she made no mention of ever wanting this blanket left.

She threatened suicide and self harm if I left, so I reported her to the RA. Her professors and the campus coordinators know about her instability.

Mar 4, 2020, 5:42:23 AM3/4/20
On Tuesday, February 18, 2020 at 2:31:22 PM UTC+5:30, wrote:
What to Do If You Find Your Partner's Name in the Ashley Madison Leaked List

by Fran Ralston | 11:41 a.m. | August 27th 2015
If your partner have been cheating on you, hopefully, they haven't been doing it through Ashley Madison. That's because their names have just been revealed to everyone who has Internet access, which probably includes you, your BFFs, your muscular big brother who's into CrossFit, your long-time nanny whose migrant family is rumored to hail from the Italian mafia, and whoever they agreed to be faithful to. For those who have been faithful in the relationship, what should you do if you find that your partner was using Ashley Madison?

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Breathe A Sigh of Relief

Finding out that your partner has been cheating on you is the worst feeling in the world. However, at least you will know who your husband or wife has been sleeping with. Thank God, they're not with the babysitter, the nanny, your secretary, or your gardener named Jose. While you can always find someone new to share your life with, it's almost impossible to find reliable and trustworthy help these days.

Admit to Your Own Affair

In most relationships that involve two people who aren't on the same page anymore, both parties will eventually resort to having an affair. If you've been having an affair of your own too, this is the right time to come out of the closet. The if-you-can-do-it-I-can-do-it-too alibi will work perfectly well in this situation.

Look Forward to Your Payday

If you've been faithful to a T, you should have no problem getting the house, alimony and pretty much anything else that you want in the divorce settlement. Once your significant other has been outed as the cheater, the last thing he or she will want to happen is let the jury or the divorce lawyer know about it. Now you can laugh all the way to the bank, every time you try to blackmail, uh erase that, threat him to sue for divorce.

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On a serious note, finding out that your partner is on such a list could just be that he or she wanted to explore in the bedroom department. Maybe both of you could benefit from an open marriage, swinging or having threesomes with others who are looking for some variety in their sex lives. At worst, you now know that your partner isn't what you want and need, which means that you can start to look for someone who is better for you.

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Take Advantage of the Guilt Feeling to Get Your Own Way

Assuming that your cheating partner is willing to salvage any type of relationship with you and your children, you can guilt him or her into taking the kids while you are having fun somewhere. It is important to note that you should only leave children with an adult when it is safe to do so. Otherwise, you might have to opt for a staycation or send them to your parent's house for a few days.

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Have you had a thing for that red-haired woman next door or for the Starbucks barrista where you get your coffee each day? Now is your chance to make your move for real. If you have ever wanted to have sex on the beach without ordering at the bar first, you have the freedom to do so without any strings attached.

If you find that your partner has been using an infidelity website behind your back, it is not the end of the world. You will eventually find someone who loves you while your partner will try to get you back when his or her latest fling is over. As an added bonus, you know that the next person to commit to can't possibly cheat on you using the Ashley Madison website.

Mar 4, 2020, 10:12:06 AM3/4/20
On Tuesday, 18 February 2020 14:31:22 UTC+5:30, wrote:
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Some guys have weird guy's handle is "I can't get enough of licking pussy" really...and you think women are going to flock to that. Another one has pics of himself in an expensive car in front of an expensive house...kind of trying a little too hard.

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Mar 5, 2020, 6:12:35 AM3/5/20
On Tuesday, 18 February 2020 14:31:22 UTC+5:30, wrote:
Someone’s impersonating me on Ashley Madison
Advice Received
Can anyone help?

There is an account on Ashley Madison (a dating site for married people wanting affairs) that is using my name, photos and a location very close to my last address. People who have been talking me “me” on there have managed to find my real social media profiles and add me on them. How can I report this account without being a member?

A similar thing happened with Tinder a few months ago. Any way to work our who’s doing this without going on MTV?

My wife is having an affair

I need to hear, the people on this site thoughts. I need enlightenment, and i feel stuck. Firstly, it's a marital problem.

I feel that i can't breath, i feel that i am getting drained.

So, everything started when my wife expresses to me that i emotionally neglected her for at least 5 years. The other side of the coin is that i dont feel that i emotionally neglected her, i feel that i always was there for her.

A little background of our life: Our life started in Puerto Rico in 2011, that's when we became a couple. During this time, we dated, and had fun. Eventually life was taking its toll, i needed to move to another city, and we talked, and agreed that we were going to move together to another city. However, she stayed for her family. I understood the situation and i stayed with her, she told me she felt bad, and that she needed to remove me from her heart, so she "cheated". Her mother noticed this, and kicked her out of her home, and she didn't have another place to go, so i took her in. We talked, and talked, and agreed to give the relationship another chance. However, even if i agreed to forgive the affair, a part of me wasn't the same, a part of me didn't fully trust her. But it was something that i worked a lot, it was something that i thought i could handle, because i gave her my word that i forgave her. Meanwhile, since we were living together, we had a child, a good and healthy boy. He is someone that i love very much, and i am thankful of life that it came from her. During this time, i was attending college, and she was as well, however, we dropped college, and i joined the US AIR FORCE. i attended BMT, and tech school, and got move to my first PCS. Afterwards, i went to get her to move her with me, and it was very happy. She was attending university online for Criminal Justice, and i begin attending my classes on local college because my classes were not offered online, specially since i wanted to do computer engineering. At least for me, this classes drained me physically and mentally, and her classes not as much, but my wife needed to take care of my son, while i worked, and went to classes. I did my best to provide, and help around the house, because i knew my wife was here all alone, and all of this was rough. At first, my wife didnt want to get a driver license, because she was "afraid" of the place. She didn't want to live my son on a day care because she was afraid that something was going to happen, and she didnt want to speak english, because she was afraid that people made fun of her. All of this made me that i needed to take fully of them. In top of this, my wife wanted better furniture, another car, and another baby. However, i didnt feel mentally prepared for having another child in my life. I was the only one working, so we couldn't afford another car or buy new furniture. My wife begin to resent me for a long time, in addition the area were we live is extremely expensive because is a military + tourist zone, so having fun is basically breaking the bank. However, i always tried my best to go sometimes for dinner, and watch movies at the theater as a family. But this wasn't enough for her.... The time passes, and she began meeting new friends over the neighborhood, and my wife started going out to clubs with them. At first it was kind of cool, she started smiling again, Meanwhile, after 4 years, my wife finally finished her criminal justice degree, and my salary was better than when i joined so i decided that i was ready to have another family member in our family. However, after 3 months my wife had a miscarriage. She started to say to herself how a failure of a woman and mother she was, she started to be everyday in depression. then, she started drifting away from our relationship, and home. The distance started to grow because she started to BLAME me for her depression of feeling alone. Her friends started to get fully involve in our relationship, and likewise my wife on theirs, our home was a total mess.

After the miscarriage, my wife was "ok", she was dealing with her sadness, and i was there making sure i was there for every step she took to make sure she still stand another day. However, after 5 months, we were in bed, she cuddles with me, like we were doing every single night, and she put her weight on me, and i told her could you move to the side i can barely breath, and took a tablet because i was reading a book. Her reaction was that i called her FAT, and she has never forgive me this, this is when our problems started. She completely detached from me, and begin cutting me from her life. She started to bring all the things that had happened in our marriage: little things, that she accumulated for years, like how she felt that i abandoned her for college and work. how i treated her like she was useless... The problem with this, i always asked her if she is happy in our marriage and during our entire marriage she always said: YES... and now she comes throwing all this trash to my face. After that, she started to meet a guy, and an affair started. Once, i was searching for a GYM card, and there was a paper narrating how there were having sex, and how in love she was with him, how alive he made her felt. When i ask her, we talked, but nothing was resolved. It has being 3 months since i discover her affair, and 9 months since we are "separated" but living in the same house... I being trying to convince her to get a divorce, but she doesn't want to... She tells me that she doesnt love me anymore, but that she needs my help for her to get a better job, since she is going to the police academy in august, after that we can get a divorce. Sometimes, she talks about a future together as "friends" not beyond that, like sharing expenses, and moments... but nothing more. While she is in love with this other guy.... Recently i made her pay her own phone service, because is the phone she uses to talk to her boyfriend and i felt humiliated that she is using the phone plan that i pay to talk to another guy. Recently she talk about having another baby but via artificial insemination with my sperm, and that has me stuck. Our daily interaction is like a marriage minus the kisses, hugs, love, commitment, and intimidation.

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In addition, i have talk to her to try counseling for herself, because she has being thru alot including her childhood. All she says is that she is not going to to that because she doesnt want to damage her record, because she wants to be a police.

Mar 6, 2020, 6:14:48 AM3/6/20
On Tuesday, February 18, 2020 at 2:31:22 PM UTC+5:30, wrote:
How can I help my ex girlfriend to get out of limerence??
My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me saying that she didn't love me anymore. Later on, I found out the she had fallen for some dude who is almost 10 years older to her. She barely knew him for 2 or 3 months. Initially, she hated that person because he had several affairs with different women. He just wanted to use her and when he got her attention, he didn't give two shits about her. My ex and I were on and off for almost 8 months. We even got back together for a month but she broke up again saying that she couldn't get him out of her mind. That guy is a manipulative person who texts her whenever he gets the hint that she is moving on from him. I know this is limerence because I saw many signs which matched with the ones listed on websites. When we were dating, she was the one who was more invested in our relationship. We had few fights towards the end and that guy used her vulnerability to get her hooked to him. He's getting married to some other girl and doesn't care about her whereas she thinks about her obsessively all day long. How can I help her to get out of this limerence? Please help!!!!

Mar 8, 2020, 11:02:04 AM3/8/20
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Mar 20, 2020, 12:41:47 AM3/20/20
He admits to me that he wants to “spread his genes”, even suggesting that he gives his sperm to a bank or something like that, and in my head i’m thinking “how great would it be if we were just in a polyamorous relationship and he has kids with all of us?” That is probably one reason why I haven’t just dropped this and try to live without this. I feel like maybe, just maybe, he’d be interested in this idea after knowing my true intent and after knowing that I absolutely will not leave him for some other chick.

Mar 28, 2020, 12:07:02 AM3/28/20
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Apr 2, 2020, 6:29:58 AM4/2/20
I went through life convinced I was weird for some of my quirks in the bedroom until I found out that people I knew were into WAY more than I was.

The reality is that she probably understands and isn't judging you as much as you think she is :)

Ultimately, I'd just let it go and not bring it up unless she does. If you bring it up again you could potentially just dig yourself deeper into the hole on this one.

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This lifestyle turns the female body into an economic commodity. This means that the two individuals are not considered lovers. They are more like business partners that get laid during the transaction. Still, money lasts a lot longer than a girl’s flawless physique, and daddy is not loyal to anyone. He is likely to trade for a newer model in time. It’s not that much different from the way men treat their cars, and a sugar baby can quickly become last year’s ride.

Rule 3: Two babies are normal, but two daddies are questionable.

If daddy doesn’t give his baby enough support, she may be inclined to look for more sugar. This can get her into a lot of trouble! Meanwhile, she must accept the hypocrisy of her daddy having multiple flings. (After all, these sugar babies probably met their sugar daddies in the same manner.)

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The most attractive sugar daddies are making these arrangements for a different reason than their regular-looking counterparts; otherwise, they would be dating fine young girls on their own merit. These suave men are usually less than gentlemanly, and they often have bizarre fetishes to fulfill. They are mistaking this field for prostitution.

Rule 5: Emotions should never be involved with a sugar daddy. This may sound idealistic, but it is the best way to stay safe and desirable.

If you get in an accident, your sugar daddy will not be there for you like a real boyfriend or husband would. In fact, if the injuries lower a lady's physical aesthetics, the incident may result in a severing of ties entirely. The same is true of diseases. Basically, your financial situation will deteriorate right when you need help the most.

Some daddies also discard their toys after they start showcasing the first inkling of being clingy. Financial security often comes with acting nonchalantly, keenly attentive and horny. As a sugar baby, happy and horny shouldn't have to be only emotions to have, but having both certainly helps. In the words of Amy Winehouse, just “separate sex from emotion.”

Rule 6: No kissing! This rule can only be changed if trust exists and thorough discussions have taken place.

A contract can be specifically devised to make kissing acceptable behavior. Until agreeable terms for making out have been put into writing, doing the tongue tango should be fully forbidden. Even little pecks are a slight cause for concern.

Rule 7: Multiple methods must be used to avoid pregnancy at all cost. The same is true of diseases.

For sugar babies, conceiving a baby instantly lowers value. It also displays a level of irresponsibility that is unfit for their distinguished position. Ultimately, girls may have to terminate pregnancy and relationship simultaneously. Daddy might not even help with the cost of an abortion, but other daddies force their babies to have one immediately. These are powerful men who cannot afford to have illegitimate pregnancies. Their methods of coercion are often tactless and forceful. A baby must bring the protection herself; otherwise, she will be without an excuse when the time arrives. He will not be likely to provide condoms unless he's a true gentleman.

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Jul 2, 2020, 1:55:18 AM7/2/20
My philosophy with hookups is that if a guy puts in at least a little effort, I’ll put in effort back. Even if he’s bad at it, even if it’s awkward, if he’s asking me what I like and trying to accommodate, I’ll put on a show and have fun. Oral doesn’t do much for me pleasure-wise, but it’s fine foreplay for a few minutes and if he wants to do it, I’m happy to let him try.

Now, on the flipside of that, if the guy is in for sex just for himself, even if I very explicitly state what I like and/or want, he gets zero effort back.

I am god-awful at going down on guys, but if they’re not pushy about it, I’ll give it my best shot. If he’s pushy, he gets me awkwardly gagging on 2-3 inches at a snail’s pace.

If there’s literally any foreplay and he doesn’t just shove a dick in me, I’ll make sure he has a good time as well. If not, he gets unimpressed starfish.

Very basic stuff, but it’s super effective at weeding out selfish/shitty partners.

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