you can look at the log file created by the debug build of thunderbird here:
https://bugzilla.mozilla.org/attachment.cgi?id=206466&action=view
If you follow it, you will see that ther are no active or idle sockets, then
a connection is made to earthlink, a bogus username is passed to it, and it
responds with an error, and then the POP3 protocol tries to talk to the
connection again, but the server must have disconnected, and necko did not
notify the protocol handler of this fact, so the connection is never cleaned
up.
This log shows that the connection never times out even though the
TIMEOUT_READ_WRITE was changed to 60 (because the connection is added to the
idle list, and the idle list is never aged).