The first thing I would do is connect a pulse generator to the Z-axis jack and characterize it's operation. The amplitude affects the brightness and dimness, and the duty cycle will affect the contrast between the 2. There will be a lower frequency where the capacitor's impedance will limit the amount of intensity modulation, as well as an upper cutoff frequency. Once you get a feel for how the tube behaves, you can look into the next step. Hopefully you will find a way to use the scope as-is.
I'm not entirely sure where to connect the opto-isolator, because it will also affect the focus and intensity. When I was setting-up my scope clock kit I had to do a lot of back-and-forth between focus, intensity, and contrast.