On Mon, 26 Dec 2016 06:36:50 -0500,
Pastor Mac <pastor...@yahoo.comm> wrote:
> On 2016-12-25 22:49:42 +0000, Theodore Heise said:
> > On Sun, 25 Dec 2016 17:25:49 -0500,
> > Pastor Mac <pastor...@yahoo.comm> wrote:
> >> Hope all had a merry Christmas. Santa was good in the Pastor
> >> Mac household...
> > We've had a mixed season...
> > Kathy and I have had a quiet Christmas with her dad, and we'll
> > get to see some friends this week and a nephew's wedding
> > Saturday night. So some joys with the sorrows.
>
> We're at that age now, aren't we? Yes, we lost my mother &
> Nancy lost her next younger brother-in-law (bone cancer), then
> her mother (heart disease), then her next older brother
> (bladder cancer). 4 close relatives within 5 months. My mother
> was aggressive dementia & I saw her about two weeks before she
> passed. I didn't recognize her.
Yes indeed. I think I may have shared a while back that I lost
both of my parents in 2014. My mother declined quite rapidly from
lymphoma, and I was with her through much of her hospice--and at
the end. It really changed my perspectives.
My dad went even more quickly from advanced prostrate cancer. It
had gone unnoticed for a long time (actuallly until he could no
longer walk)--because he had been on chronic pain meds for chronic
back problems. It was a rough year, and I'm still not fully back
to my old self.
Sounds like you have had plenty of rough life experiences
yourself, and I'm preaching to the choir here. Glad to see you
are keeping up good spirits!
I'm coming to know the saying that growing old is not for pussies.
It's not just the increasing variety and intensity of infirmities
and physical failings, it's the losses of loved ones from our
lives.
> Where are you now? NM? AZ?
Kathy and I are still living in Bloomington, IN. And will be
relocating once my employment there is done. At 61, I'm still not
quite ready to retire, but it's also not clear this job will last
until that time comes. We'll see. We're spending the Christmas
holiday in Nebraska with Kathy's family, so in Sterling now.
NM and AZ are definitely on my list for appealing retirement
locations. Not sure that will fly though, because Kathy will
probably want to be somewhere closer to kids (and grandkids).