I'm curious how they do that; there are only 2 wires going to the bulb... Are you thinking they piggyback a digital signal on top of the high voltage and it just talks to itself through the bulb?
But yes, I agree that this is the most difficult problem to solve.
But, I'm essentially at an impasse. I am not spending $250 for a new bulb every 1000 hours. I simply refuse. In that case, the printer is going to sit in a corner of my shop until I can get a UV LED projector for sub $500. My max acceptable cost for the bulb is $100, and I blame myself for assuming that the third party bulbs would work when evaluating the TCO.