I am using the Nodemcu flashing SOFTware on a pc. I have no problem with running jumpers...but your description mentions (
Use a wire to connect GND to RESET and GPIO0. Roll up off of the RESET pin to continue holding GPIO0 to ground )....................I have no idea what "Roll up off of the reset pin" means. I can guess......but I don't want to risk smoking the little chip. I have "smoked" a lot of electronics over the years and have learned to avoid it.
Also....I have not satisfied myself with an accurate pinout on the 8266. Some of what I have read...does not match the schematic pinouts. Once I see several schematics showing the same pinout...I will take a chance if necessary
BTW,.........The little USB flash dongle from China has the worst soldering I have ever seen. I am not sure what they did to make the joints look so bad. It almost looks like they are badly oxidized. I don't really care about the quality...I had zero expectation anyway...I just have never seen anything like it.
Update...after writing this reply I started looking at some solutions. There is a pinout label on the underside of the chip. I now have a schematic I am comfortable with.
I can't thank you enough for giving up your time for hobbyists. Right now I have at least 50 tabs open from researching this.. I have 3 pc's engaged.