You need geocoordinates (that can be GPS coordinates). You need a latitude, longitude pair for each grave site to post on a map.
You cannot use MapIt as it is but the concept is basically correct. MapIt oriented to street addresses.
What you want is a list of each marker and the geocoordinates, a simple database program to make the data persistent and a StaticMap or ActivityStarter map (like used in MapIt).
How do you add the coordinates for each marker? It depends.
Do you already know the geocoordinates for the markers (that is does the cemetery provide that information)? Then you already have the information you need to put in your list gravemarkername, " 33.0,-97.8" or perhaps gravemarkermame, 33.0,-97.9 . This information could be put into the app by using a csv file to populate a List in the app . Yu might use a spreadsheet program to create the csv. The List should then be stored in a TinyDB or perhaps a FusionTable. Your app will require either a WIFI or network (data) connection.
If you do not already have the grave marker coordinates, use the GPS receiver in your Android to 'capture' the coordinates to a List and then save to perhaps a csv file. Ages ago, there was an app in the MIT gallery that used AI2 to capture the locations where ecological observations were made. You need to code an app like that OR, more simply , you could code a very simple app that uses the locationsensor and the GPS to display the current geocoordinates by visiting each marker, recording them in a notebook. Save the information, then use a spreadsheet program and enter the data in the spreadsheet, then use the spreadsheet to create a csv file.
I will see if I can find the reference and post it later today. See the Plant Data app
http://jabmobilecomp.strikingly.com/ . It uses a FusionTable to store data. This stores the GPS geolocation and lots of other data about each location. There may be more here than you need in your project. It depends upon what data about each marker you want to collect.
I will post a simple app that captures a current location and posts a map later...
Regards,
Steve