On 20 Feb 2013 23:58:07 -0500, Matt Carter
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r_q_eins...@yahoo.com> wrote:
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>No, there were no shenanigans like that. Absolute Mortgage may
>have just been sloppy and booked too many clients to be able to
>meet their deadlines.
When I bought my house, the mortgage lender wanted me to start work
BEFORE I moved from NY to MD. He wanted me to stay in a motel, and
run back and forth to NY to pack and move. I wanted to take a month
off, pack, move, and then start work. I arranged a letter from my
new boss saying I was starting earlier t han I was, gave it to the
mortgage guy, and I thought things were settled, but the mortgage guy
also then sent my new boss an affidavit to sign. Though he would lie
for me, he wouldn't lie on an affidavit for me (and I don't blame
him.) AIUI, both the letter and the affidavit were meant to prove
that I wasn't just conjuring up the notion that I had a new job, and I
did indeed have one.
I learned I wouldn't be getting a mortgage about 4 days before the
scheduled closing. When I knew I could borrow the money from my
brother, I should have tried playing hardball with the mortgage guy's
boss (Mortgage now or forget it), but i didn't think of it. It would
have been good experience for me, win or lose.
So at the last minute I borrowed cash from my brother to buy the
$62,000 house. By this time interest rates had dropped so
immediately after I bought the house, I applied at another bank for a
mortgage. They said 30 days.
When 32 days came with no word, I called the bank as if I were a new
customer and asked how long it took to get a mortgage. They said 30
days. I said, Then how come I don't have one? They called me back
the next day and said my paperwork was moving to the next guy's desk
-- whooopee -- but it still took another 45 days to get the mortgage
and pay my brother back.
My brother had so much cash because he was hoping to buy a medical
practice in the San Francisco. Fortunately for me, he didn't find one
during those 75 days.
The second bank was screwed up in many other ways too. At one point
years later they put my brother's name on my mortgage, even though all
he had done was as I said, pay for the house first. . That prevented
my brother from getting a mortgage of his own, when his lender thought
he had too many mortgages. I called the bank here to take care of
that, but then I immediately called my brother's bank in Texas and
told them what had happened, and they seemed to take my word for it.
They didn't ask for a letter from my bank, and I can't believe the
bank had called already, since I figure they were going to send a
letter and not call at all.
The other interesting thing is that they told me not to bring a
personal check to the closing, but all my brother would send was a
Dreyfus Fund check, signed by my brother, IOW a personal check . The
words Dreyfus Fund must have impressed them because no one said a word
about it. (This was 1983)
Also, because I paid cash at the first closing, no one was there to
insist I get fire insurance. And at the second closing, with the
2nd bank, either they assumed I had gotten insurance earlier (which I
had, but how would they know that?) or it was an even greater example
of their incompetence -- that they didn't care -- because they never
asked about it.
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>The cynic in me thinks that they probably knew early on that
>they weren't going to be able to make the deadline, but they
>waited till the last minute to tell me on the belief that it
>would be too hard at that point for me to take my business
>elsewhere.
Maybe. OTOH I had the impression that no one was in charge of telling
me anything. That when the paperwork reached the final desk, the guy
at that desk would call me or the first guy to let me know I had a
mortgage, but until then, no one was giving it a thought, including no
thoughts about what else I would do. This was Pr..... Bank of
Baltimore which was bought out by M&T bank 4 years ago 30% of
employees lost their jobs, all of them those who didn't deal with
customers. Acc to wikip.