[balita-anda] orang hamil boleh melayat gak?
Dini Rachmawati
mau nanya nich
orang hamil boleh melayat gak yah?
ada yang bilang ngga boleh, nanti ajah kalo jenazahnya udah dimakamin
gimana nich..?
hari ini ada ibunya teman kantor yang meninggal
Icho
Waktu hamil Della pas 8 bulanan dulu aku juga pernah di larang ikutan
ngelayat cobat deket
tap alasannya karena cuma takut shock ngeliat jenazah aja sih... , dari pada
ngerepotin orang
kalo alasan lainnya kurang paham...
akhirnya nurut aja..
Turut berduka cita ya..
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Evariny Andriana
kalo kata ibuku.. nanti ada yg "nempelin"
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Evariny Andriana
http://www.hypno-birthing.web.id/
nyonya hidayat
alhamdulillah fisik masih kuat.. itung2 ibadah...
Pada tanggal 04/10/07, Icho <choliso...@ai.astra.co.id> menulis:
Mama 2D
kebetulan pas hamil 2A aku sempet melayat pas Alif (hamil 8 bln) istri
pakdeku yg meninggal, pas hamil Aksa (5 bln) pakdeku yg meninggal.
Alhamdulillah nothing happened. cuma gak ikutan sibuk jadi cuma bertugas
duduk2 menyambut keluarga yg datang melayat
Reni
kita aja,sebelum/selama/sesudahnya kita melayat ya kita berdoa aja supaya
setelah kita ketempat tsb,tidak terjadi apa2,....
waktu aku hamil 5/6bln juga aku ikut melayat ke rumah temenku,karena ortu
laki2nya
meninggal, malah dirumah temenku itu lama bgt loch nunggunya,secara temenku
itu pake acara adat batak, alhamdulillah siy, after melayat ngga papa tuch,
ngga ada
perubahan atau ada yg ikut atau blablabla...
ya kembali lg kita aja,ragu atau ngga........
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Wiwi Williyanti
gw waktu hamil fifah umur 6 bulan apa 8 bulan gitu ikut ngelayat ortu temen
kantor....waktu itu Bapak² pada larang seh cuma gw tetep ngeyel abis selesai
ngelayat pada mo makan bakso di kramat...ya gw gak mau rugi donk...he..he
pas ngelayat gw cuma di depan rumahnya aja...gak ikutan masuk
wong ngarepnya makan bakso he..he..he
alhamdullilah tidak terjadi hal² yg tidak enak
boleh.
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Ella Zuyuna
Itu semua dikembalikan ke diri masing2.
Kalo aku sendiri no problem.Pergi saja.Dan ada juga
orang bukan suku jawa...kalo hamil pergi ke orang
meniggal nggak boleh.Tergantung dech...
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Sanawati
Kalau yang kutau kita melayat itu untuk meringankan beban pendiritaan orang
yang ditinggal
Paling kita kita mambantu menghibur mereka dan itu ada pahala tersindiri
dari Yang Maha Kuasa
Dan tidak ada hubungannya dengan kehamilan.....
Ini menurutkou lohhhh
Dulu waktu bapakku meningggal ada beberapa tetangga yang hamil datang tuk
melayat
Waktu kuliah ada teman kuliah yang ortunya meninggal dan kulihat data tamu
melayat yang juga sedang hamil
Sekarang semua kembali ke mbak dini mau melayat atau tidak
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Rita Setiyawati
Setahu saya kalo dari segi syar'inya melayat = ta'ziyah itu dianjurkan
bagi setiap muslim/ah (tentunya wanita hamil pun masuk) dengan *tetap
menjaga adab2 dalam berta'ziyah*. Begitu pula ziarah kubur yang untuk
mengingatkan manusia pada alam kubur masih boleh (walau ada khilafiyah
di dalamnya). Yang ndak boleh itu bila wanita mengantar jenazah ke
pemakaman (paling ringan dihukumi dgn makruh) - hadits riwayat
Bukhari-Muslim dari Ummu Athiyah.
back to ga bolehnya, alasannya kira2 apa ya?
kalo misalnya karena lokasi jauh dan bakal bikin capek orang hamil ya
masuk akal ..
kalo kurang rasional ya baiknya ga diikutin..
dateng di tempat jenasah trus ikut menyolatkan itu pahalanya satu qiroth
(sebesar gunung uhud) .. mau ndak :-D
waallohu'alam
Rita
Stevani
bole melayat
semoga membantu
thx
stp
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From: "Dini Rachmawati" <rachmaw...@gmail.com>
To: <balit...@balita-anda.com>
Subject: [balita-anda] orang hamil boleh melayat gak?
Muthi
dan akhirnya terbawa ke psikologi mbak... Nah nantikan terpengaruh juga
bayinya ya
Tapi memang sebaiknya klo saran aku ya, banyak2 baca doa ketika melayatnya
supaya tidak terjadi hal yang tidak diinginkan. Ngelayatnya ga usah sampe
nganter ke kuburan ya, ga usah liat muka si mayitnya juga deh.... Dulu aku
pernah melayat juga pas hamil 8 bulan, alhamdulillah sampe sekarang Kayla
anakku yang pertama sepertinya ga apa-apa kok. Dulu itu karena ga enak
banget pas sebelah rumah anaknya kecelakaan, tapi klo mertua ku tahu juga
pasti ga boleh sih.
Tapi klo mbak ga dateng juga kayaknya ga pa pa juga deh, banyak yang maklum
kok soalnya memang orang hamil sih dimaklumi tidak melayat.
Thanks,
Muthi
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Thanks,
Muthi
retma w
mau kan ngikut ajah semua ritual plus baca Yasinan lama.
Menurut aku sih, ada yang nglarang karena takutnya kecapekan (waktu itu
bapak dimakamin di TMP Kalibata jadinya pake upacara. Kan lama tuh). Selain
itu kan kadang orang hamil sensitif yaaa. Kan kalo ada orang meninggal
biasanya dikasih bunga dll. Naaah, soalnya pas aku hamil aku gak bisa tuh
kalo mencium bau wangi2. Pasti muntah :(
Tapi alhamdulillah.. gak pa-pa kok.
rgd,
:: retma