I have tested now ith the controller sending "relatives". This keeps the big jumps away, at least for the faders with 0 in the middle. Because the controller is now sending valies around 64 the LR fader "jumps" to 64! ok for sth like exposure or contrast, bad for sharpness, luminance, aso.
But MIDI2LR is collapsing very often! - crap!
I have returned to "absolute" but changed the range to "1-127" to avoid sending 0, but it's not better!
I still think the Arturia MiniLab is the optimal controller for this and IT HAS TO WORK PROPERLY!!!
I would love to compare and play around with someone. I'm living between Karlsruhe and Mannheim, please raise hands, if someone is nearby !