MSFlexgrid VB6 > Changing border colour of fixed cols/rows??

[Mojo]

Hi All

In a nutshell I'm happy for the top row of my flexgrid to be the
greyie-brown colour that fixed cells are shown as, but I also need to fix
the first 2 cols (for forename and surname) and it looks a bit rubbish for
these to be greyie-brown as well.

I've managed to change the background colours for these cols as I iterate
through the rows alternating between white and then a shade of grey, but you
can see which are fixed and which aren't by a black line round the fixed
cells. If I change the fixedgridlines (whatever the param is called) to the
light grey of the other cells then my top row borders get lost in the
greyie-brown backgrounds.

What I need to do is change the cell or row borders for any row other than
row 0 - is this possible??

Thanks