With the DiI you will not be able to identify where the tip was precisely. Only the track.
It would be great that microlesions work, but you typically need to pass a high current to produce a visible mark which is not good for the probe. I suggest discussing this with people at Neurolight Tech to evaluate the limits. I guess this is very challenging.
Thank you for sharing the NN lesioning guide. Personally if you are able to produce them I would consider running a more patterned array for unambiguous identification.
For CaMPARI, etc... I am not so optimistic. First, you need precise wavelenghts that may not be targeted by the uLED emission spectra. Second, because it is based on inducing calcium activity the reporter is not necessarily reflecting the light spot but the activity cascade, which could be even activated from dendritic locations. Of course, it would be great to give it a try. Some people have tried to use cfos IH but it was not so straitforward neither.
The problem is still calling for solutions.