Dear Metta Hope Tank,
Last week in Petaluma, we read chapter 4 of the book
Nonviolence (Satyagraha), a collection of writings by Gandhi. As
we passed the book around, we stopped after each person finished
reading a paragraph or so in order to comment. I'm interested in
hearing what others took out of the conversation (chapter was on
'means and ends.'). One topic that stuck with me until today is
our discussion on identity, how in nonviolence, we are never
against the person. This becomes complicated when individuals
identify themselves (consciously or preconsciously) with their
actions, in other words, take it personally when an act they
have committed is found wanting. One way I find this practice of
not identifying others with their deeds, is by practicing it
myself. Not getting worked up when others speak out against
something I have said or done. In that way, by separating myself
from my actions, I can more fully believe that others are not
theirs, either.
Please do send in your thoughts about chapter 4 if you have
read it (and are not in the Petaluma area). For those who where
at Hope Tank, please do send your thoughts about the
conversation.
Best wishes,
Stephanie
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Stephanie N. Van Hook
Executive
Director, Metta Center for Nonviolence
Nonviolence is the greatest power at the disposal of
humankind. (Gandhi)
Contact information:
The Metta Center for Nonviolence
Box 98 Petaluma, CA, 94953
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www.mettacenter.org
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