Hi,
Thank you so much for trying them out. Actually, bhastrika is a much more energetic breathing technique (we call it "fast belly breathing" - we have an audio but haven't yet put it up on the site).
Actually, i'm working on some more comments about the videos which we'll put up on the site. But as far as progressing, we probably won't be going into too much detail on the site itself. We are in the midst of creating e-courses for what is going to be our "Shopify" online store.
This is partly, of course, because we're going to be going "commercial" with this - but also, i've found, in the course of investigating how people use meditation tools, that people most prefer to be guided through the whole process, step by step.
You could actually, by studying our website on your own - particularly the "quick start" pages - get enough for free to take you through years of meditation practice. But with an e-course, you get one or more letters a week guiding you step by step through the process.
This is kind of like what Fitness Blender does. They have over 300 free fitness videos. They are among the best i've ever seen. You just go to youtube, look for them, and you've got all you ever need for getting in shape. no gym necessary, no fitness coaches, expensive exercise classes, etc. And they're available for free, to the entire world population,
And how many people exercise regularly? In the US, it's about 15%. Why? The resources are there. People need guidance and support.
Same with meditation. There's enough on our site alone, but if not that, there's the whole web. I do think ours is one of the best approaches out there (if not, we wouldn't have put it together:>)). But still, I talk to people who have taught meditation for some time, and they admit they need encouragement and support to keep on with practice.
So, we'll be putting an e-course together.
In the meantime, you might want to check out our quick start pages.
In a word:
1. Stop for a minute or two several times a day, in the midst of whatever you're doing, and spend a few minutes doing slow, even breathing (in 4 counts, out 4 counts). If you're having ANY trouble or discomfort, stop. It should feel VERY good, if not, stop and just hang out. If you need some support for this, watch a breathing video (I personally, despite 40 years of 2x a day meditation, which i nowadays almost always find enjoyable and easy, I still find it very helpful to watch one of our breathing videos during a break. Actually, I personally find it more of a relaxing break to stand and do tai chi movements to the video while breathing - we plan to make a video of that too at some point!
2. If you want to start a regular practice, choose a regular time - for most people, right after waking or right before sleep is the most likely time to be "regular" about it. Do some stretching, splash some water on your face (or better still, shower first), read something inspiring - a paragraph or two, same thing for at least a week at a time if possible, arrange a beautiful space where you have pictures of nature, a candle, or something that inspires you). Don't spend tons of money getting fancy meditation tools off the net. We have a small table, some artificial (yes, really!) flowers that are beautiful, a few pictures, a small Buddha statue, and I sit on old pillows I've arranged that are very comfortable - Jan sits in a chair - doesn't cost a penny extra to do something simple like this. sometimes we just take an old beach chair and go down to the French Broad River and sit outside by the water).
don't force yourself. Do some breathing, relax, read the inspiring passage, then sit for 5 or 10 minutes.
Understand why you're doing this. if it's just for relaxation or stress management, don't pretend it's spiritual. That's perfectly fine. If you have a genuine spiritual aspiration (it's infinitely rarer than you might think; so be careful not to fool yourself or it will get you in trouble) this aspiration itself will lead you to whatever you need.
in the meantime, understanding the brain, establishing a strong ethical foundation to your life - being kind, honest, empathic, caring, taking responsibility for your actions and doing whatever you can to make the world a better place - all of this is INFINITELY more important than "techniques."
Ultimately, if you still want to understand the essence, you can apply it any time of day, whether in formal meditation or walking around or working or making love. Step back into pure Consciousness, and attend to all you do, think, feel and say from that center.
This is what we refer to on our site as "remembering to breathe."