I've listened to Norquist's audiobook a few times. I think it's important to consider him an entertainer primarily. His book is supposed to scare you like a horror movie would. I'm told he even sought the advice of a horror movie writer in order to better achieve that end. In this game, you really can't afford to take every single person seriously. I've studied some of the work of L. Ron Hubbard and despite all the bad stuff people say about him, I've managed to learn a couple of useful things. But if I were to take L. Ron Hubbard completely seriously, I would go mad.
In my experience, a person needs to take what they can from whomever they study and leave what doesn't make sense. As an example, Steven Norquist explains that studying metaphysics can lose you a few friends. This is because many people are actively trying not to think about metaphysics. The last thing they want is a close friend who is deeply studying metaphysics. I'll be more blunt about it. They are trying not to think about the fact they're going to die. They can go as long as 3 months without it entering their mind by focusing on everything that basically isn't that; be it their guitar playing or their movie collection and so on so forth. This is useful information if you're studying spiritual materials.
Norquist has some zen-like communication techniques he uses in certain parts of his audiobook. It's a short audiobook for whatever reason. Perhaps he doesn't have 9 hours worth of things to say. But in that case he could say the same thing in 9 hours worth of different ways.
I'd like to make a clear distinction between two kinds of people:
The first kind is those that assume life is meaningless and ends in nothingness, but make the conscious decision to believe in a fairy tale in order to strike back at that atrocity. This kind gets very angry if you do either of 2 things: 1. Logically attack their fairy tale. 2. Suggest alternative metaphysical speculations in a sincere manner. I will explain why. First of all, they already know their fairy tale isn't true and they're actively trying to believe it as a coping strategy. Your logical dismantling of it is unwelcome to say the least. Second of all, they're under the assumption life is meaningless and ends it nothingness, and so your metaphysical speculations are perceived as a waste of time or a threat to their ability to cope if they sound plausible and involve continued suffering as in the case of reincarnation or parallel worlds etc.
The second kind is those like Bernardo, Robert Lanza, Rupert Sheldrake, etc. This kind of people is sincerely trying to get a rough idea of what this might be all about and what might realistically be in store for them, even if it entails continued suffering infinitely and forever. These people are very different from the first kind. It helps to know these differences among people so you can understand what you're dealing with when you're taking or not taking someone's material on board. There is a group of people that don't like sincere seekers because they assume there is nothing that can be sought. Any talk of someone trying to get answers to big questions, like Bernardo does try to, infuriates them because it undermines their assumption that success in doing so is impossible.
The word enlightened, strictly as a verb, is actually quite applicable to everyone. If you're a chess grandmaster, you are to a large extent enlightened about chess. I am enlightened to a large extent about the nature of people and their motivations. When you start thinking of enlightenment as a spiritual achievement and not a noun referring to a human process of development in understanding of something, you're setting yourself up for frustrating communication situations.
All in all, Steven Norquist is a dark individual but one with something to say that could be of use to some. He is certainly enlightened about some thing or other as a verb. That he is enlightened in a lofty spiritually permanent sense is doubtful. On that subject, Deepak Chopra believes he will retain some of his success enhancing traits into his future lifetimes as different people through reincarnation. What that does is make him more comfortable with reincarnation, which he believes in. Bear in mind that Deepak is rich, healthy, and lives a meaningful life in his current incarnation. Why on Earth would he want to lose all of that through rebirth? It's clear why he would want to think he will retain at least some of the wisdom he has gained in this life and believe he will get to be a big time something, anything, in his future lives.
This idea that we can achieve something during this life that will echo into our future is seductive for a good reason and I've outlined that reason a few different ways above.
The way I look at it is this. During this life I have right now, there have been times when I'm a total and utter loser and times when I'm a winner. The me that I consider me has been so different at different ages that it's almost as if I've been reincarnated while alive in the same life. I don't expect to be able to achieve something in this life that prevents the loser situation from ever happening to me again. I'm destined to be a loser over and over again when it is called for. I'm also destined to be a winner at times. I would love it if there were some Jedi type system that makes me so spiritually powerful that I never have to be a hopeless case ever again in any life. But that just doesn't fit with my experience or the way I think.
I've no doubt someone will chime in with a comment claiming otherwise and also without adequately explaining why. But if anyone has read my post and wants to add to the ideas presented or criticise them, go for it.
David