Doesn't seem to want to stick on my MM2 bed heater, the metal is nice and shiny, I tried buffing it, seems to be solid silver color all the way through.
I see mention of Nickle Alloy used in Kapton heaters, but nothing clear on what solder to use. I tried 63-37 and 60-40 flux core and some RoHS lead-free with Silver. Also tried Chipquik and it's flux. The original joints almost look like they were cleaned with a strong acid from the way the Kapton looks etched around the solder wetted area.
Have you ever looked at how many different kinds of solder there are?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solder