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Tina Popielarczyk

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Aug 5, 2024, 1:58:18 PM8/5/24
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HiChris, I was dating a girl who was also dating someone else. We kicked off through the end of their toxic relationship. We fell in what I believed to be love and formed an official relationship in secret.

It was only a couple of weeks later that this girl changed her mind about wanting to be single. They first re-established a no-strings-attached relationship. Having fun. Not talking about the relationship. Enjoying each others company.


She is going to test you and see if you really do mean what you say. Do you really want her to be free? Do you really want freedom yourself? And are you really focused on your mission instead of being focused on her?


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tldr; My girlfriend of a year who claims she wants a committed relationship still is keeping her relationship status marked as "single" on facebook and has no mention/pics of us as a couple even though she has plenty of other personal stuff.


I don't really do facebook but about 4 months ago my sister was checking out my girlfriend's facebook page to see something about her business and noticed that on her relationship status it said "single'. That was a red flag to my sister so she decided to tell me. I mentioned that to my girlfriend and she said she really hadn't thought much about going in and changing stuff on there. I decided not to make a big deal out of it and I didn't really think much about it.


Just FYI, we are not in high school and just casually dating. We have both said we are committed to each other and she has talked about me moving in with her. She has expressed doubts about what I'm going to do job wise (I'm not employed at the moment but have some savings and do have decent money in a house). However, she claims those doubts don't impact her commitment long term.


I was going to see her today (she lives about an hour away) but she was in a bad mood and we actually argued for the first time in a while. She then said she didn't want me to come up. It all seemed odd.


My best friend brought up the facebook thing after I said I'm not going up there after all, so I decided to check her facebook account myself. It still says single. There is one picture on the front with her, myself, and her best friend standing in a row. It's unclear if we are a couple from that picture. There are no other pictures on there of us. Not even a mention anywhere of us as a couple but she has plenty of other pictures with lots of other people. Including old ones alone with other dudes. She has updated facebook many times even recently with plenty of comments about other personal things in her life. Basically, if someone were to see that site they wouldn't have a clue she was in a relationship of any kind.


I think I should talk to her about this. She is free to live her life according to her values but if that is how she rolls, I'm not comfortable with that. It's not my values. So there's an incompatibility there. My sister says you can even eliminate the relationship status category entirely. Even that would be OK. So the choice to keep it as "single" seems pretty deliberate.


Well, normally I'd agree with you and as I mentioned at first I didn't care. But the fact that she shares plenty of other personal stuff on FB including previous boyfriends is giving me pause. She knows I don't do facebook...and I didn't even look until today.


3. If you need to judge how she feels about you based on what she says about you on Facebook then take a look in the mirror. Have you posted pictures of her and changed your relationship status? No, you don't even care enough about the relationship to sign up for Facebook, yet you say it matters.


4. People use social media in all kinds of different ways and are comfortable sharing different things. If it matters to you then talk to her about it. Don't stalk her accounts and jump to conclusions.


It's obvious what's going on with her. She is monkey branching you. It's a very common thing women do in regards to relationships. She is holding on to you, aka the existing branch, until she has another relationship to go to, aka the next branch. You understand that if a monkey doesn't have a hold of a branch, they fall out of the tree.


Seems to me that she's not fully committing to the relationship and keeping her options open. Is it because she's not sure how she feels about the relationship or because she's waiting for something better to come along? The worst case scenario is she's cheating or is open to cheating (not saying that's what's happening). Either way, it's definitely a significant red flag. It'd be one thing if you just started dating or if she didn't really use her FB account on the regular. But you've been together a year and she posts regularly to it? As Joe Biden would say, "Come on, man!"


I'd have a calm and serious discussion with her and explain how what she's doing makes you feel. If she cares about you and the relationship, she'll fix the problem immediately. If she doesn't, then you have your answer and you know it's time to dump her. DON'T give her an ultimatum, let her do the right thing on her own. If you give her an ultimatum and she complies, that still puts the relationship in a bad place moving forward.


Good post. She doesn't sound enthused about sharing your relationship for some reason, although if she talked about moving in together, then that implies she's somewhat serious. Maybe you are misinterpreting, but if you're feeling insecure about this then you should have a discussion with her and see her response.


She likes being in a relationship but doesn't want to show you off (probably because you're a skinny runner). I'd stop making the drives and let her put in the work to keep the relationship going, while realizing the relationship is probably ending soon and looking for other options.


This. I honestly don't remember whether I listed my relationship status as "single" or just left it with the generic "no relationship info to show" when I created my FB account. If it says "single," it has remained that way through multiple relationships because I've never even thought about my FB profile enough to consider reviewing and editing it. I'm also pretty sure that my AIM name is still listed in my contact info on FB and that my listed favorite music is a smattering of whatever I was listening to in college.


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I found this to be the worst recipe ever. i used fresh ingredients, my liquid (pancakes) didnt rise, it stayed like water and my 4yr old was very dissapointed in the flat things that came out. i had to use a different recipe for breakfast that wasnt bland and flat.


Hello! Caster sugar is similar to granulated sugar (also known as superfine sugar in Australia). Icing sugar is more of a light powdery sugar and you usually use it in buttercreams. Hope that helps :)


I added a handful of quick oats and half of a sliced up banana.. And used raw sugar. It was really good with the blueberry sauce, but I added more sugar and a tsp of flour to the blueberry sauce recipe. It all turned out yummy.


I could really taste the egg in these, will probably try them again with Apple sauce instead of egg. But I love the idea of single serve because all other recipes are WAY too much and I would end up eating the rest of the after the kids breakfast!


Unfortunately these pancakes turned out way too liquidy. I made them twice just to make sure and they were definitely not of pancake texture but almost wet and crepe like. Great idea though, just wondering if the amount of flour should be more.


As a fifteen year old girl who LOVES cooking desserts, I like making stuff only for myself. This. Was. Amazing. The second time I made some, I doubled it. I also stuffed it with Nutella, wich made it even better. Thank you so much!

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