Hi Ben,
the easiest and the fastest way to solve your problem is to reimport
the spreadsheet into MapInfo, overwriting the exisiting table
definition. All the new records and all the old records will be
visible then - with the most recent attribute data.
If you reopen the workspace with the updated table you will discover
that all the custom labelling and styling is already in place, because
these settings are stored in the WOR file.
This means that you will have to reimport your spreadsheet on a
regular basis - as new records are added and old records are changed.
HTH,
Egge-Jan