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2.When we criticise someone, we surely miss God's blessing.
3.When we are lazy, we miss God's blessing.
4.When we are puffed up,
5.When we don't become a blessing to others with the blessings we received, we miss God's blessing.
6.We ignore the poor, the needy, and the less previleged, amongst us, we miss God's blessings.
7.When we are carnal in our thinking, we miss.....
8.When we don't do good, where we can do good, we miss...
9.When we say lies, we miss...
10. When we exagerate, we miss.....
11. When we seek man's honour, we miss....
12. when money controls us, we miss....
13. When we are a slave to lust of the eyes, lust of the flesh, and pride of life, we miss Gods blessings.
And so on and on and on and on.
Love
Mathews
Tomy
On 05-Mar-2010, at 1:10 AM, Mathews - Revival <obs...@singnet.com.sg>
wrote:
When the wife back answers, to the husband, the family as a whole misses God's blessings. Because, the children grow up seeing this and they repeat this backanswering in their lives. A sure way to miss God's blessing.
When children backanswer to the parents or speaks rudely to the parents, family misses God's blessing.
When the family does not pray together,
When the family does not go to the Church together,
When the family does not eat together whenever the husband and wife are at home,
When the husband and wife does not take deceisions concerning the family and children, TOGETHER,
When the husband and wife does not take decesions in unity and cooperation,
All the above misses God's blessings.
Communication is the key to a successful marriage, and when there is no communication between husbands and wives even for short periods, and for whatever reason,....the family surely misses God's blessings.
Husband and wife sleeping on separate beds,
Abstaining from sex other than fasting and prayer, or for mutually agreed purposes,....misses God's blessing.
A christian wife is not supposed to deny sex to her husband as a form of revenge, and at the same time a husband should not force the wife for sex.
The healthy way out is to prepare your wife for a physical encounter(relationship) by pampering her, by foreplay, and by creating a healty love relationship with your wife.
But surely no revenge, and no forcing. Both are ways to miss God's blessing.
During family prayer time, you can focus on Jesus, and you can also focus on other saints in the old testament. I would prefer to focus on Jesus, because this would be more blessed and I will read the old testament to increase my knowledge, and if I want some confirmations about what Jesus said and taught.
Let Jesus be the King in our married life.