1. A marriage of the
first degree which took place between partners of equal rank and
property.
2. A marriage of the
second degree in which a woman had less property than the man and was
supported by him.
3. A marriage of the
third degree in which a man had less property than the woman and had to
agree to management of the woman's cattle and fields.
4. A marriage of the
fourth degree was the marriage of the loved one in which no property
rights changed hands, though children's rights were safeguarded.
5. A marriage of the
fifth degree was the mutual consent of the man and woman to share their
bodies, but live under separate roofs.
6. A marriage of the
sixth degree in which a defeated enemy's wife was abducted. This
marriage was valid only as long as the man could keep the woman with
him.
7. A marriage of the
seventh
degree was called a soldier's marriage and was a temporary and primary
sexual
union (a one night stand).
8. A marriage of the
eighth degree occurred when a man seduced a woman through lying,
deception or taking advantage of her intoxication (equivalent to date
rape).
9. A marriage of the
ninth degree was a union by rape (forcible rape).
10. A marriage of the
tenth degree occurred between feeble minded or insane people.
--- On Mon, 9/7/09, Rajeev Ayyagari <rajeev....@gmail.com> wrote:
• Lastly 3 and 8 contradict each other. A bought son is a kinsman,
whereas, a child borne with pecuniary consideration is an heir. Seems
like 3 was added to the list just to upgrade 8 in case of an
emergency!!
Rajeev, the list is not from a woman's point of view. This listing is mentioned in the Manusamhita. And it is a comprehensive list according to which sons can be obtained by 13 ways. Because no matter what a man (or a woman for that matter) had to have a son to offer salvation (via pinda-daan) to his forefathers.
A kinsman could, in the absence of an heir, become one and Hinduism was pretty lax on this conversion. I would recommend a) Dandin's Dasakumar Charita to get an idea of the non-uniformity of practices in 6-7th century India and b) J.J. Meyer's "Sexual life in ancient India".
~Shampa
--- On Tue, 9/8/09, rajeev <rajeev....@gmail.com> wrote:
> From: rajeev <rajeev....@gmail.com>
> Subject: Re: A 'legitimate son'.....