If you would like to only select certain metadata variables to go in the model you can use the fixed_effects option. For example: fixed_effects = c("Age", "Sex") will only return those two variables even if you have more than those two in your metadata dataset.
You can order your metadata variables in the metadata dataframe before running the Maaslin2 function if you would like a specific order. This can be done with code like this in R:
metadata = metadata[, c(1:3, 5, 13, 6:11, 4)]
I hope this helps.
-Jeremy