Lon,
If you go to the setup menu and look at the Vario Parameters page, what is the setting in the Auto SC field?
If you are using the remote stick, then this should be set to OFF
Then go back to the Setup menu and select Hardware and then the Variometer item.
The second line down in the bottom portion of the page is where you set the Speed Command (sc) function. Set this to SC toggle button.
That should have it working normally.
Assuming this fixes the problem, then to answer to your "how to control the volume on the ground question". Instead of turning the volume knob, if you just toggle the vario into SC mode (and your MC value is still set to zero) then the vario will be silent because the needle will be at zero in SC mode.
This is one of the first things that I do after I turn on my 9000 to silence it while I am entering task etc.
To learn more about your 9000, go to my YouTube channel. I currently have 15 videos there that cover various aspects of the LX flight computers.
Dave