Ticket to Jannah

[Muhammed Faraaz Ebrahim]

Ticket to Jannah

Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) said: “Any woman who passes away in a condition that her husband is happy with her will enter Jannah (paradise).”

(Sunan Tirmizi #1161)

The happiness of the husband is the wife’s ticket to Jannah. Her mind should always be thinking of ways to keep her husband happy. A husband cannot ask for more in a wife, if his wife is always cheerful, warm, smiling and caring. To keep one’s husband happy is as easy as just remaining content and expressing one’s happiness. 

Indeed real happiness will only be enjoyed if both husband and wife work together as a couple in bringing alive complete Deen, and in both spouses fulfilling each other’s rights and showering love and compassion.

Thus, if the wife tactfully creates this situation both will enjoy peace and tranquillity.

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Advice On Raising Children:

The school, the street, your neighbours, or maid should not play the largest role in raising your children. Rather you are specifically responsible for his task. The Prophet (صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ) said:

“A woman is a guardian of her husband’s house and children and is responsible for them.” [Bukhaaree]

Perhaps while you are cultivating your children, instilling within them guidance and moral standards, another person may come along and destroy that which you have worked hard to build. So do not allow others to raise and watch over your children; they may see from others that which disrupts the moral values that you have instilled.

Along with this, your home has certain standards and techniques in child rearing, which may differ from the techniques of you relatives. So observe your children an hour after mixing with their cousins. Do not neglect the importance of correcting misunderstandings, which they may have picked up while with other children; and encourage them to embrace the proper outlook.

[Taken from "20 Pieces Of Advice To My Sister Before Her Marriage", pp.56-57]

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THE REWARD FOR A WOMEN OFFERING SALAAH IN HER HOME

Ibn 'Umar  (رضي الله عنه ) narrates that Rasullulah  صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ     said : " Do not stop your women from the masjids . But their houses are best for them."

[Abu Dawud]

سُبْحَانَ اللّهِ

The Messenger of Allah (صلى الله عليه وسلم ) said: "The world is but a (quick passing) enjoyment; and the best enjoyment of the world is a pious and virtuous woman."

[Muslim]

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بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيمِ

"Truly Hell is lying in wait- a destination for the transgressors."

[an-Naba, 78: 21-22]

“O you who believe, save yourselves and your families from a fire whose fuel is men and stones, over which are (appointed) angels, stern and severe, and who do not disobey Allah in what He orders them and who do precisely what they are commanded.”

[at-Tahreem, 66: 6]

Fire will Mount Right up to the Hearts:

“[It is] the fire of Allah kindled [to a blaze], which mounts right to the hearts. It will be a vault over them in outstretched columns.”

[al Humazah, 104: 6-9]

Hellfire/Jahannum is prepared for sinners- we need to stop sinning! Start Repenting & change for the better & start doing sunnah NOW!!

1 of the biggest problems in todays age is not treating woman correct!

Abu Huraira رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه   reported: The Messenger of Allah, صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , said, "Treat women well, for woman is created from a rib, and the most curved portion of the rib is its upper portion; if you try to straighten it, it will break, but if you l

eave it as it is, it will remain curved; so treat women with kindness."

[Sahih Bukhari 55:548]

Our  رســــول اللـــه صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ said:

Cursed is he who hurts or decieves a believer- (Tirmidhi)

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Islam commands justice and kindness towards women:

"O you who believe, it is not lawful for you to take women as heritage against (their) will. Nor

should you straiten them by taking part of what you have given them, unless they are guilty

of manifest indecency. And treat them kindly. Then if you hate them, it may be that you dislike

a thing while Allah has placed abundant good in it."

The Holy Qur'an Ch.4:19 (The Women)

In the above verse, Allah tells the Muslims that they cannot treat women like slaves, but must

act justly with them. The verse enjoins Muslims to treat women kindly and warns them that they

may hate a woman when Allah has “placed abundant good”, in her. Muslims are to be just kind

to women and they must be careful not to underestimate the worth of women because of

imperfections that are made up for by their much greater good traits. Muslims are not to exploit

women, be cruel to them nor take them for granted. These are the commands of Allah to “you

who believe.”

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "Do you know what backbiting is?" They said, "Allah and His Messenger know best." He then said, "It is to say something about your brother that he would dislike." Someone asked him, "But what if what I say is true?" The Messenger of Allah said, "If what you say about him is true, you are backbiting him, but if it is not true then you have slandered him." (Muslim)

So gossiping on Ones wife will be just as sinfull- keep her secrets to your self as well

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Adh-Dhahabee’s Advice To Women (And Their Husbands)

Imaam Adh-Dhahabee said:

If a woman wears the clothing of a man and it is tight on her such as around her body like that of some of men's clothes, like tight sleeves, tight private regions and so forth, (then) indeed she has imitated him and she has brought the curse of Allaah upon herself (1).

If her husband does not prevent her from doing so, or is pleased with what she is doing, he has indeed shared in that curse, (as he has) aided her in such a sin and he will be sinning with her which is the opposite of what Allaah has ordered him to do. That is to have Taqwaa and he has also bee ordered to save himself and his family form the Hell-Fire, as Allaah The Exalted says in the Quraan:

"O you who believe, ward off from yourselves and your families against a fire whose fuel is mankind and stones." [66:6]

Footnotes:

(1) Ibn Abbaas(رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه ) said, "The Messenger of Allaah( صلى الله عليه و آله و صحبه و سلم ) cursed those men who imitate women, and cursed women who imitate men." [Bukhari]