#1 | It’s better to join a large dating site, than a smaller local dating site.
On your search for the best dating site in your area, you may come across smaller local dating websites. While these may look attractive on the surface, offering a specialized pool of local daters in your area, it’s generally a better idea to steer clear of smaller localized dating websites.
The reason being, most online daters, whether local to you or not, join the larger dating networks to increase their chances of finding a match. Most likely, there’s actually more potential local hook ups on a larger more established site, rather than a smaller local site. Counter intuitive right? Wrong, just like Facebook has grown to be the most popular social network on the planet, larger dating website’s operate in the same way - the more people that join, the more valuable the service becomes, and the easier it is to find local dates, hookups, and fuck buddies.
#2 | Upgrading your account will help you find more matches.
Chances are that you may have already tried local dating sites, or larger brands in the online dating space. Perhap’s you’ve had luck, or maybe not, either way, it’s important to know that while it’s perfectly okay to stick with free local dating sites, or free dating accounts, it’s generally much easier to hookup with someone near you by upgrading your account and paying for a premium membership. Most sites offer perks that will supercharge your online dating success including:
"it’s important to know that while it’s perfectly okay to stick with free local dating sites, or free dating accounts, it’s generally much easier to hookup with someone near you by upgrading your account and paying for a premium membership.”
#3 | If you’re serious about finding a fuck buddy, you need to upgrade.
Let’s face it, nothing comes for free in this world. In a world with endless promotions, coupons, and daily deals it’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that free is better. With local dating, this is certainly not the case.
In face even the popular free app Tinder, is beginning to charge for premium memberships. Why? Other than the fact that it costs an enormous amount of money for services like Tinder to maintain a network of singles looking to hookup, there’s no denying that paid membership simply works better for people who are serious about finding a friendship, love, or hookups online.
Requiring a small monthly fee for premium access to dating websites accomplishes a few crucial things. It verifies the profile owners identity and ensures that they are a real person, who is committed to meeting other real people. Number two, it offers an easy way to pay for those extra features that really do people find their match. Let’s face it, it’s not easy to find a fuck buddy or sex partner that you will be compatible with. Luckily, dating websites are now able to analyze online dating profiles to match singles with astounding accuracy. Of course, none of this comes free, so it’s always a good idea to upgrade your online dating account sooner than later if you’re serious about hooking up locally.
#4 |Not everyone’s profile is authentic and real.
Keep in mind, when using free local dating sites, since there won’t be credit card verification on the profiles, unscrupulous people could be misrepresenting themselves online. Besides being a waste of time, there’s no quicker way to get turned off to online dating by joining a site that does not verify their members. No one wants to talk to fake, or misrepresented users. So keep in mind, that when using free local dating services, you need to actively check to make sure the people you are interacting with are who they say they are.
Do have a high quality profile photo.
This should go without saying, the best way to improve your chances of finding a match on free dating sites is to include a high-quality profile photo. I’m not saying that you need a professional photographer or need to take a crazy photo shoot with props and wild animals. A simple picture of yourself smiling is usually enough to get the job done.
Don’t use your dick pic as a profile picture
Yes, there are a few dating site’s out there that are a bit more explicit than the rest. And while it’s okay, or perhaps even encouraged, to include nude photos as your profile picture, it’s usually best to not have a close up of your dick as your introduction. Sure, maybe it’s your greatest asset. Maybe you’re genuinely proud of your dick, but either way, if you’re looking to have a real connection or meet for sex, it’s important to use a profile picture that tells users a bit more about you than just a profile of your cock. Save the dick pics for albums and private photo’s; you’ll get a higher click through rate on your profile, more hits, more matches, and ultimately more date’s and lays.
“And while it’s okay, or perhaps even encouraged, to include nude photos as your profile picture, it’s usually best to not have a close up of your dick as your introduction.”
Do use a real email
Many free dating sites use your email to sign up. While it might be tempting to input a fake or spam email simply, please don’t. Many free dating sites send user messages and sex requests directly to your email, so you’d be missing out greatly on all your matches, messages, and potential fuck buddy hook ups. Some sites send your password directly to your email, so if you don’t use your real email, you risk someone else being able to high jack your account. Long story short, take care to use a real email when signing up for a free dating website.
Don’t use your work email
Whether or not you think your work environment is laid back, and your boss is chill, it’s an atrocious idea to use your work email for a free dating site. First of all, whether you’d like to believe it or not, many work places will directly monitor your web usage, meaning, it doesn’t look excellent (and puts you in quite an embarrassing situation) when you use a free dating site at work, or with your work email. The even worse option is that your company uses a CRM or email sync program which will automatically pull all your email communication into a central hub where your superiors can access all communication. Needless to say, it’s not going to be pretty when someone else is reviewing the communication taken place using your work email and a free dating service.
Do check in regularly
Many people have the tendency to start things and forget about them. Be like an envelope and stick to one thing until you get there. That means, when you sign up for a free dating site, you should be checking in regularly (at least once a week) to interact or initiate contact with any potential matches, dates, or hook-ups. If you’re not going to be consistent and put effort into online dating, then there’s no reason to even sign up in the first place.
Do use a mobile app or mobile site
Smartphones offer modern day consumers a mini super computer in the palm of their hand. Online dating sites that support mobile and smartphones offer online daters superior convenience and privacy. Using a dating site or app on your phone offers you better privacy, as generally, you won’t be sharing access to your phone as readily as a home, work, or family computer. It also gives you the convenience to check in on your matches, dates, and adult contacts whenever you like.
Don’t give up if you don’t have any luck right away
If at first, you don’t succeed, then try, try again. Having success at online dating takes effort, and chances are you won’t have instant success right away. While it’s easy to get discouraged, it’s better to re-evaluate and perhaps update your profile, run a few new searches, and message those few matches or hot singles near you. As long as you don’t give up, the chances are in your favor to meet someone that you’ll find interesting. And of course, if it comes down to it, spending a bit of money to buy an upgrade to your profile visibility or messaging permissions can greatly improve your chances at finding a match.
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