Khurram

[Jess]

Hi Khurram,

Are you a T*Girl admirer? Are you on this group looking for sex? If the
answers yes then maybe you should leave. The idea of this group is that
it's a place for liverpool area girls to talk to each other and make
friends with each other. There are plenty of other groups where you can
go "pick up chicks", try www.gaydar.co.uk.

What does everyone else think?

[Kay Denise.]

Reading this person's posted messages, I think it is apparent its an
admirer. In the circumstances you know what action that should be
taken?

Personally I'm surprised the person was accepted onto the group as
clearly there seems to be no profile? I assume the person indicated a
reason for wishing to join and poss confirmed was a CD / TV / T-Girl
and is local or has Liverpool links?

Although difficult, the need for tighter acceptance conditions springs
to mind by the mods? No offence intended, just my personal views.
Hugs to all. K.D.

[Jess]

I notice you don't have a profile either Kay, are you surprised you
were let on the group?

This isn't alcatraz, I'm not going to check the name of every person
who tries to join with interpol, if someone says they want in then I'll
let them in, and if they're a real pain then I might kick em out again.

[Kay Denise.]

Yeah the difference that I gave you an introduction and also Ruth C
knew me when I requested to join, therefore you had an indication that
I was a T-Girl. Clearly you intend this group to be for all comers
including "admirers" then?

[Kay Denise.]

This is the said description of this group = " A group for all T*Girls
on the Liverpool scene. This is not a group for admirers, this is for
girls to find other girls to hang out with and make friends!" Now I'm
puzzled?

[Jess]

Well khurram hasn't actually stated his or her gender yet, I don't
remember what they said on their sign up message and I can't view it
now. I have put them on moderation for now.

Yes this is "A group for all T*Girls on the Liverpool scene", and I
noticed in an earlier post you said you had no intention of going out
on the Liverpool scene, but I'm not banning you from this group because
neither of those rules are set in stone, just as your decision isn't.
You may yet decide to venture out in Liverpool, just as Khurram could
possibly realise his fascination with Tgirls is due to his own
repressed gender isssues. So no one is barred by default, but if people
are a nusiance then they may be asked to leave.

The essence of the no admirers rule is that this group isn't here for
soliciting sex and prostitution, as it would put many people off,
including me, but friends of tgirls on the liverpool scene who want to
join in the chat are welcome, even if they are technically admirers.

[Kay Denise.]

Your reply is much appreciated and I think you clarified the position
very well. Yes I have no intention in going out into Liverpool and yes
that could change but I really very much doubt it will happen. In the
circumstances, if there is a "local T-Girl" evening out to another NW
location, then I may consider joining them. You never know we could
meet eventually? Once again thanks and at least you got some input from
your original message.

[Jess]

No problem :) there's always some event or other on in manchester, i go
out there now and then, I'm sure I'll see you around soon enough!

khurram is still on moderation and I've not heard a word out of him!