My dear Pamela,
I see the validity of your points, however, I would like to point out
that not all parents would have that reaction. While some parents do
care first and foremost about the education of their children to
provide a stable future for their children, not all parents would
agree with that. Parents want their children to graduate from higher
education institutes to guarantee their happiness and a stable,
overworked, well-paying job will not guarantee every childs happiness.
Some people would be happier with a job as a sidewalk chalk artist as
there would be less pressure to succeed, they would enjoy drawing more
than sitting at a computer, and they don't give a **** about money.
For that reason, some parents would condone their childs decision to
drop out of school to become a sidewalk artist. Parents should have
their childs happiness first and foremost in mind.
sincerely,
Katharine Ann Mikula
xoxo
On Mar 25, 12:20 pm, "Pamela B.Girard" <
pamela.blanc...@gmail.com>
wrote:
> Why would parents be unhappy if their son/daughter told them
> that he/she plans to drop out of CEGEP to become a sidewalk chalk
> artist?
>
> My dear extraterrestrial fellow,
> let us start answering your question by providing further explanations
> concerning the role of CEGEP. CEGEP is a post-secondary level of
> education which, in our society, is regarded as higher education. By
> higher education, I refer to the fact that, since we are living in a
> developed country, the most part of society has at least attended the
> secondary level of education, if not passed it. Therefore, fewer and
> fewer people attend the higher levels of education, such as CEGEP and
> later University. Thus, the more a person attends school, the more
> specialized the workforce is and few are the more specialized a
> workforce group is, the fewer members it has, making it a more
> valuable workforce that will earn more money, which is what we
> exchange for goods or services. Having mentioned the role of CEGEP in
> terms of what it brings to its students, you can see that dropping out
> of CEGEP would mean a lesser level of specialization for the drop out
> student, which would in turn lead to a lesser gain of money overall,
> which would mean the lesser chance of acquiring goods for this person,
> wether it be basic goods, the ones that ensure your survival, or goods
> that simply make your life easier, such as an internet wired
> computer.
> Then, amigo from outer space, let us explain the role of parents and
> their expectations in order for you to fully grasp the answer to your
> inquiry. Parents are a couple(two people, generally a man and a woman,
> but it can also be a pair of men or women) that are educating
> kids(fairly recently born humans, boys or girls) at home about life in
> general, culture, social behaviour, but that mainly transmit a set of
> values, general guidelines for conduct in life, to their
> offspring(which can also be adopted, in which case the educating
> couple may be referred to as "parents"). If parents take the task of
> educating their children seriously, which some do not, they will care
> a great deal for their children's well-being, wether it be material,
> physical or psychological. Having cared for their children while
> educating them, they expect their offspring to care for themselves in
> the same way or even better once they leave their guardianship to live
> a life on their own, which is usually customary since parents mortal
> and cannot take care of their children indefinitely. Therefore, they
> expect their children to have enough specialization in order to be
> able to earn a living(money) that will allow them to acquire basic and
> lifestyle goods and services. Acquiring a CEGEP or higher level of
> education is a good way for the children to ensure this seeing as
> CEGEP has also been created in order to promote higher education to
> Québec students.
> Therefore, the issue of dropping out is a big part of the unhappiness
> that parents will feel if their child drops out of CEGEP in order to
> become a sidewalk chalk artist.
> The other part of the answer lies in that children can earn a decent
> living even if they do not attend CEGEP, even if the instances of this
> are rare. However, becoming a sidewalk chalk artist signifies that the
> child will earn his/her living through the goodness of people or the
> taste of people, if he/she gets a sponsorship by an art gallery or art
> foundation. Thus, the living he/she will earn depends on his/her
> talent, if he/she lives in an urban center or a rural community(there
> are more people likely to see and like the chalk art in urban centers
> since there are more people living there) and the goodness of people
> which is not very great and depends as many factors as there are
> people living on planet Earth(7 billion). Therefore, the chances of he/
> she making a living that corresponds to the standards of his/her
> parents are very limited, which explains the possible unhappiness of
> the parents when they hear the news.
> There are however a few instance where parents might not be unhappy :
> if parents do not care for their children, if they have a huge
> inheritance($$$) they can leave to their children that will ensure
> them a good life, if the cultural legacy of the parents is closely
> tied to artistic development regardless of the living conditions of
> the children.