Here's how you can specify different fade in and fade out times per step using a sequencer grid.
In the sample project, the red sources represent the fade in time and the yellow sources represent the fade out time. To change a fade time, select a yellow or red source and change its power. 1% is equal to 1 second.
This makes use of the shader mode. For each cell under the blue source, the following formula is evaluated:
fadeout(grid.powerat(x, source.y+1), fadein(grid.powerat(x, source.y+2), source.x==x))
The core is source.x==x. So when the source x position is equal to a cell x position, the result is 100%. Then the fade in and fade out are applied based on the sources above.
Cheers,
Mathieu