I might have a new feature to help in this scenario. I'm adding a way to let specify the fade in and out per attribute on the grid.
So you could select the activation attributes on the grid and set the fade in and out times.For the fade out, you would select the last activation attribute in the sequence and set a 4s fade out. For the fade in, well since in your case you want it to span multiple attributes, it's a bit more difficult. You would need to set a 1s fade in for the 4 first attributes and then set a min&max range for each one: 1st: min=0 max=25, 2nd: min=25, max=50, 3rd: min=50, max=75, 4th: min=75, max=100.
Let me know if you want to try this.