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Wow, those stats are astounding. Almost 1/2 of the black women are not married. Of course in this day and age marriage is not viewed the same in our culture as it were 50 years ago. Although our elders may have raised children single-handedly most of them were married first. That filters down from the break down of the black family from slavery to the civil rights movement. Many black men were killed, jailed left because They were unable to provide for their families. Not to mention the post traumatic slavery disorder that derives from using strong men as breeding tools on the plantation, selling off husband wives & children has left a long lasting effect on our race.
Next lets look at societal influences the slim white woman has always been marketed as beautiful. Used to be part of our culture when our great grandparents would say if They are darker than a paper bag don't bring them home. Clearly giving props to the lighter part of our race.
Enough history in my own dating experience I've found many men who've only dated me because I was lightskinned with long hair. Or I had an exotic look. And I've had to dumb down to date. Some black men don't feel comfortable dating an intelligent woman. They have challenged my intellect. Some only notice my shapely figure but not anything else. Then I have friends who do not look like me, They Are darker bigger & smarter and not many men will come on to them.
I've done an experiment before I'll go out to a bar, dressed sort of sexy, meet a man and play the dumb blond role. They love it they fall hook line & sinker. Then later on I have an actual discussion about something relevant to real life other than silly giggles and I've heard "wow you're pretty smart, Then they'll switch the conversation to something sexual. If I don't bite they lose interest. Or I'm such a great girl to have as a friend but they only want friendship & sex on the side if that's possible. Crazy hunh!! I've spoken to older black women with the same issues. Why?
I can go on and on but there definitely is a reason why we are at the bottom of the totem pole when it comes to marriage
Or it could be true, and there is no reason for it...
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Tamara people do view blacks around the world negatively, today. But thats due to global westernization. The views that other cultures have of black people or african americans is based on america's view of black people. Due to the american media's continuous negative portrayl of negro's we have been come the most notorious race on the planet. If you think about it, chinese people from american aren't called chinese americans when they are outside of the country, but we are called black. Africans are identified with thier native country when they travel,