Family is the main reason why I do not regret having remained in SA. It is worth a lot and I see the issues around me with families where an entire generation has emigrated. I know a lucky few where the entire family left (hysterically, just after selling off the baked bean stockpile in the 1990s – and I no longer look askance at it) and they are very happy.
I am now too old to leave except as a retiree. Since I do not have children, I have not (fortunately) propagated the problem. I also have friends around my age who feel bad about not having taken their children out of the country. Not all children are going to be ambitious and/or resourceful enough to do it themselves. It is complicated and I think Stephen is right about the price of leaving being high. I only hope that I am right about the price of staying here – that all the negatives are visible, but I am probably an optimist from this point of view.
It seems to me that the ideal would be the highly mobile lifestyle that Hügo suggests but that is basically an option only for the childless. The fact that Hügo's children will grow up without grandparents means that their children will probably have grandparents, at least.
SA is interesting to me and basically I like it here but I acknowledge that you need to be fairly robust and able-bodied, most of the time, to enjoy it. A bit like an ice bath.
Op 26-04-2024 om 08:03:32 +0200 skryf Hügo Krüger
hkrug...@gmail.com:
> On Fri, 26 Apr 2024, 07:29 Stephen vJ, <[1]
sjaar...@gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
> To be fair, Eskom is apparently just a hobby to those running it too.
> ;-)
> Kids and pets are definitely a big part of why we don't travel... that,
> and the fact that a) my parents do have the means to come visit us and
> b) my wife basically broke ties with her parents... and then Covid
> killed her mom.
> People also under-estimate the impact of distance and time-zones... at
> least France is a single 12 hour flight within approximately the same
> time-zone. Nobody in SA is awake when we are and travel is at least 36
> hours one way. That is a bigger barrier than most people realize.
> I have lost 3 close relatives so far whose last days and memorial
> services I could not attend. Immigration is harder than it looks. Most
> of the time I appreciate having power, fast internet, zero crime and a
> good night's sleep... but it comes at a pretty high price.
> Stephen.
> On Apr 25, 2024, at 22:17, Hügo Krüger <[2]
hkrug...@gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
> Eskom is just a hobby interest, because I worked and wrote about energy
> a few colleagues asked me what went wrong with Eskom. I actually
> stopped after I got the message to set in that it came down go
> government not doing maintenance despite having sufficient capacity.
> I started blogging about energy and climate in general (which is a
> hobby), then before I knew it I was interviewed on national TV as SAs
> "energy expert". Been kn RSG, Newsweek Africa, SABC etc now ans I enjoy
> public debate.
> I still keep links to SA, but like Stephen I have avoided the SA expat
> community gatherings. Also France comes with the additional advantage
> that you need to speak French and that opened up travel to the French
> speaking work.
> We don't have kids yet (Stephen's point about why I can afford travel),
> so we do take many of our holidays in SA or Iran.
> My wife and I have parents that are getting old, so we thought it's
> best to spend more time with them.
> Other than that, I enjoy the cosmopolitan life in Paris.
> On Fri, 26 Apr 2024, 05:03 Stephen vJ, <[3]
sjaar...@gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
> I'm curious to know Hugo's answer on this one - it's a very good
> question. Speaking only for myself, I would say that I have mostly left
> totally... I mean, people notice the accent and one always carries the
> history of upbringing, home life, culture, schooling, etc. but I've
> tried to become Canadian and to let go of the past... I cannot say that
> I am particularly interested in South African politics or parastatals
> or even economics... but that is definitely the exception to the rule,
> judging by most other expats around here. Folks hold gatherings and
> start clubs and form communities - there is a Punjabi cricket club a
> bit to the North of us and a Ukrainian food market a bit West of
> here... and there is a bunch of South Africans dealing in clandestine
> exchanges of Kurt Darren albums a few kilometers to the South East.
> People take vacations to the old country... I don't know how they
> afford it and if I had the money, I'd much rather go to Aruba or Hawaii
> or Colorado. That's just me though.
> Stephen.
> On Apr 25, 2024, at 14:01, Erik Peers <[4]
erik...@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> Hugo, do you care for Eskom out of technical, academic interest; or do
> you care because it is South Africa?
> I guess what I am really asking, is when you leave and take up
> citizenship elsewhere do you leave totally, or does some part of you
> remain in your home country?
> On Thu, 25 Apr 2024, 21:51 Hügo Krüger, <[5]
hkrug...@gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
> I kept my RSA citizenship, because it's easier to get into Iran with it
> than with a French one. There are few countries where the green mamba
> has an advantage (Russia too recently),
> so I see that as a good advantage.
>
> Op Do. 25 Apr. 2024 om 21:47 het Stephen van Jaarsveldt
> <[6]
sjaar...@gmail.com> geskryf:
> <[7]
li...@googlegroups.com> geskryf:
>
> Question for you Stephen. When you became a Canadian citizen , did SA
> home affairs strip you of your SA citizenship?
> Do you know if they have?
> There has been a long running court case here which has now reached
> some sort of finality, that ruled that doing so was illegal. It seems
> that for years, when SA citizens have applied for citizenship of
> another country, officials have unlawfully cancelled SA citizenship.
> I would be interested to hear your experience.
> Regards
> Gail
> Sent from my iPhone
>
> On 24 Apr 2024, at 06:53, Stephen van Jaarsveldt
> Op Di. 23 Apr. 2024 om 02:49 het Trevor Watkins <[9]
bas...@gmail.com>
> geskryf:
>
> Hi Stephen
> Here is a summary from 2018 forward.
> We got this flu thing in 2020 and everything went to shit. Well, that's
> about it.
> On the libsa@googlegroups side, we had this pretty functional system
> from about 2005 forwards. It catered for long form, persistent
> conversations structured around meaningful topics. You can research Jim
> Harris's opinions to this day. Then whatsapp came along (I plead guilty
> to starting the Libertarians group in 2015, but it was just meant to
> help us decide where to have dinner at the J Bay libsem). Now we have a
> very short form system (most inputs less than 100 characters)with no
> persistence (try to find anything from last week) and no historical
> context (Jim who?). But it provides instant gratification and EMOJIS.
> What could go wrong?
> I have been trying to get libertarians and individualists to adopt
> Discord, which has structured channels, long term persistence and
> searchability, and all the characteristics of whatsapp (instant
> gratification, video and speech channels, managed threads, etc.) But
> its a bit hard so no takers.
> regards
> Trevor Watkins
> [10]
bas...@gmail.com - 083 44 11 721 - www.individualist.one
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> On Mon, 22 Apr 2024 at 09:59, 'Gail Daus-van Wyk' via LibertarianSA
> <[11]
li...@googlegroups.com> wrote:
>
> Good morning from South Africa.
> I’m assuming you are still in the northern hemisphere?
> Good to hear from you Stephen but there is no way I’m going to attempt
> a summary. There is a WhatsApp group and I dip into it here and there.
> Too time consuming otherwise. But always interesting and often
> controversial as only libertarians can be.
> Anyways, on the more personal front, my husband has been the mayor of
> the growing city of George in the Western Cape for the past 4 years and
> will be moving up to provincial parliament after the election.
> I now have two grand daughters and keep my brain active but should do
> more so with the old body.
> I’m sure Trevor or Charl will bring you up to speed. They seem to have
> the most time.
> Beste
> Gail
> Sent from my iPhone
>
> On 22 Apr 2024, at 00:10, Stephen van Jaarsveldt
> <[12]
sjaar...@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> Hey buds. I muted this group a while back to focus on some personal
> challenges... what's been happening while I was away ? Anyone want to
> take a stab at summarizing life & developments since 2018-ish ?
> S.
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