Hello,
I am (probably) typical LW member - I like rationality, philosophy, hacking life and so on... 23 year old computer scientist, still studying and half-working, having stable, happy and extremely satisfying relationship for last 4 years.
10 days ago me and my girlfriend found out that we are unavoidably and unexpectedly going to become parents. We have planned a child already, but not now, rather few years later. Nevertheless, even anticonception has it's obvious limits and I now have 4 more months for preparation to become a responsible parent. We are not in a bad situation (we are supported from our mid-class families, we can probably finish our masters and so on) and we are now happy about it.
Finding out that most of the information about parenting on the internet is crap mostly written by unknown mothers without no sense for rationality, I am now trying to find more reliable information. Rational parenting, as it seems on google search, isn't so unusual and this LW groups is another support for it. There are already more information than I am able to handle.
Hence, I would like to ask if anyone ever tried to make some kind of checklist which would describe what I or my girlfriend should do, study, buy, prepare or whatever. This would help us to aim on specific steps in the order of their importance instead of chaotically reading everything...
Maybe it's not even possible to do otherwise :) .
Thank you very much,
Daniel!