The impact of reverse coding should be to reverse the signs of observed variable correlations. If sample size is low and model fit is somewhat marginal, it is possible that flipping the signs of correlations could produce an ill-conditioned correlation matrix. But there may also be an interaction with the specific algorithm that lavaan uses to optimize fit. This kind of pattern may not have been tested as heavily during software development.
Try setting starting values for the parameter estimates related to the reverse coded item. You might choose as starting values the parameter estimates from the model that converged but with reversed signs. You might also try a maximum likelihood solution, just to see if the behavior is specific to WLSMV.