You didn't provide any other syntax (namely, your call to
lavaan() or any output), so I don't know how you are identifying your relative to how the Amos video assumed you would. If you are using the default
std.lv=FALSE, then the first loading will be fixed to 1 for identification, in which case you can change all your "a" labels to values 1 to equate them.
If you set
std.lv=TRUE, then your syntax should do what you are asking, but that doesn't mean the model is correct for your data. The warning messages indicate that at least one of your latent variables (ETAs) may have negative variance. Check your
summary() output.
Terrence D. Jorgensen
Assistant Professor, Methods and Statistics
Research Institute for Child Development and Education, the University of Amsterdam